J.O. wrote:
I hope you mean it this time?
I don't know. There may still be hope. If you would only increase your stride length, I've heard that can do wonders.
J.O. wrote:
I hope you mean it this time?
I don't know. There may still be hope. If you would only increase your stride length, I've heard that can do wonders.
lollasaurus rex wrote:
OP, what you need to do is cold turkey cut her out of your life, like in a period of a few hours.
Stop giving a screwed up person like that power over YOUR life.
Stop giving them power, do it, do it now, or regret it.
second this
you'll be so much better off when you've cut the girl off. Every minute you stay in this relationship is a minute you're with someone who is unfaithful to you.
Better way of looking at it, every minute he's in a wasted relationship with a screwed up person, is a minute he can't be in a happy relationship with a well adjusted person.
The ones that drive you the craziest are usually the ones you care about the most.
clownfaceloser wrote:
Aswell: I´m sorry but I think your girls is cheating on you, it´s just too obvious.
this is my story,
Gf of 4 years is now living in London and we were trying to continue our relationship. Her so called "friend" goes to London and she shows him around, because he doesn´t know anyone there. Dude always comments on her FB page, nothing suspicious untill yesterday. I guess she didn´t see the comment in time to erase it, but anyways... I commented on his comment, saying "caught you red-handed."
her best friend in London almost immediatly comments "sheeet", then I comment "thanks for confirmin."
I erased my comments, confronted her, and she try the typical cheater strategy of turn thing around on me.
She didn´t admit it, but I finished it, got mad drunk and got laid (which i had not for 6 months, bc i loved her, boohoo).
before anyone says it, yeah she showed him around indeed, puta!
I didn't think you could delete comments on FB.
out in the cold wrote:
Latest and greatest excuse: Driving all her friends home and didn't get in until 6:00 in the morning from her good deeds.
Not to be a p**** but man it hurts when she treats me like this. And she gets mad when I'm putting in time to run. Done with it.
This has been over for a while you just weren't given timely notice. Walk away and don't play the heart-broken loser that replies to texts and emails for weeks. No explanations or apologies necessary, just be a man and walk away.
out in the cold wrote:
Latest and greatest excuse: Driving all her friends home and didn't get in until 6:00 in the morning from her good deeds.
Not to be a p**** but man it hurts when she treats me like this. And she gets mad when I'm putting in time to run. Done with it.
[quote]brakey wrote:
Walk away and don't play the heart-broken loser that replies to texts and emails for weeks. No explanations or apologies necessary, just be a man and walk away.
[quote]
This is exactly what I plan to do. Thanks for putting it into words. It's hard not to respond but I'm not going to get played anymore.
your own comments you can
suggestion maker wrote:
clownfaceloser wrote:Aswell: I´m sorry but I think your girls is cheating on you, it´s just too obvious.
this is my story,
Gf of 4 years is now living in London and we were trying to continue our relationship. Her so called "friend" goes to London and she shows him around, because he doesn´t know anyone there. Dude always comments on her FB page, nothing suspicious untill yesterday. I guess she didn´t see the comment in time to erase it, but anyways... I commented on his comment, saying "caught you red-handed."
her best friend in London almost immediatly comments "sheeet", then I comment "thanks for confirmin."
I erased my comments, confronted her, and she try the typical cheater strategy of turn thing around on me.
She didn´t admit it, but I finished it, got mad drunk and got laid (which i had not for 6 months, bc i loved her, boohoo).
before anyone says it, yeah she showed him around indeed, puta!
I didn't think you could delete comments on FB.
out in the cold wrote:
i hated it when she'd be texting or checking her stupid FB while we were at dinner or whatever. i know, it's my own fault for letting it continue
Call me old-fashioned, but this is such a subtle sign of total disrespect. I've been with my wife for 9 years and would never do something like this (and vice versa) unless we were waiting on someone to meet us or something related. I see this so often in relationships at restaurants and the couples seem almost miserable to be together...if not texting, then they are staring at their plates or at TVs (if available), never talking. Typically this is a bad sign.
Yeah, don't do this. Handle your business like a man not like a douche.
Nor Cal wrote:
Be sure to call he a whore and tell her to get the f*** out of YOUR house. This will be sure to get the point across you know what's up and you are not a pussy.
just another guy wrote:
I recently had a pretty good sign that my wife is cheating on me. I came home early from work one day and noticed that her male friends car was parked across the street. This made me suspicious. When I went inside I noticed men's clothing on the stairs, this made me a little more suspicious. When I went into my bedroom to let my wife know I was home early I saw a naked man on top and balls deep in my wife. This really had me suspecting something was going on. If I put this all together it appears that she may be engaged in unfaithful behavior. I am not ready to say she cheated yet but it is really starting to look like it to me. What do you think?
minority report?
Go out until 7:00
Oh, I'm a girl. We have already broken up. Also saw lots of strange facebook comments, too many things piecing together in the wrong way.
Let me get this straight:
Step 1- Man cheats, doesn't tell his woman
Step 2- Woman is suspicious
Step 3- Man gets mad at woman for being suspicious, tries to turn it around on her making it her fault in hopes that woman will get fed up and break up with him, leaving him off free with no guilt about ending the relationship.
is this correct?
I've never met one cheater who wasn't a ho for life. Behavior doesn't change.
wacka wacka wacka wrote:
I've never met one cheater who wasn't a ho for life. Behavior doesn't change.
So, your statement would have some significance if you knew quite a few "cheaters" and then tracked every one of them for an extended period of time (actually, you are claiming "for life" but I would settle for twenty years). Otherwise, not so much.
My wife was having an affair with our close friend. We hung out as couples. She was friends with the other wife. The other couple had a 1 year old son at the time of discovery.
I found out because she left her email open and I noticed a whole bunch emails from my buddy. After the discovery she would hide her phone. It never left her sight-not for a second. She took the ringer off in case it was him. It became password protected. She also started using "his" phrases in conversation. She also spending thousands of dollars a month on new clothes including a trip to an exclusive lingerie shop.
Prior to that-she was spending less time at home. She would disapear the whole day on Saturday. In retrospect--I noticed that she would set her alarm minutes after I left for work (some days I went in later).
Another sign is that they will rewrite your history as a couple or claim they were never attracted to you. It pretty much sucks--but once you get through it--there can be a lot of fun on the other side.
aswell wrote:
Oh, I'm a girl. We have already broken up. Also saw lots of strange facebook comments, too many things piecing together in the wrong way.
Let me get this straight:
Step 1- Man cheats, doesn't tell his woman
Step 2- Woman is suspicious
Step 3- Man gets mad at woman for being suspicious, tries to turn it around on her making it her fault in hopes that woman will get fed up and break up with him, leaving him off free with no guilt about ending the relationship.
is this correct?
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Numero three, the turn around is a typical cheater strategy. So, yes. You nailed it!
aswell wrote:
Let me get this straight:
Step 1- Man cheats, doesn't tell his woman
Step 2- Woman is suspicious
Step 3- Man gets mad at woman for being suspicious, tries to turn it around on her making it her fault in hopes that woman will get fed up and break up with him, leaving him off free with no guilt about ending the relationship.
is this correct?
And also part of 3:
Man repeatedly calls woman CRAZY for thinking he's cheating.
Uh-huh wrote:
aswell wrote:Let me get this straight:
Step 1- Man cheats, doesn't tell his woman
Step 2- Woman is suspicious
Step 3- Man gets mad at woman for being suspicious, tries to turn it around on her making it her fault in hopes that woman will get fed up and break up with him, leaving him off free with no guilt about ending the relationship.
is this correct?
And also part of 3:
Man repeatedly calls woman CRAZY for thinking he's cheating.
not fair i have never cheated but been accused and used those words