How do you answer when she asks how many other woman I have been with

The correct answer is ....

"Enough so that I'm not a complete rookie, but not so many that I sleep with everyone. I'm very selective about who I want to be intimate with. And you ?"

Next time you'll know.

Oh, and the correct answer to the question "Where is this relationship going?" is ....

"We're both independant, mature adults. We can take this relationship anywhere we want."

You're welcome ...

marijuologist wrote:

Decline to answer the question. Just laugh and say "oh, I wouldn't tell you that" and that you think it's tacky to say how many women you've been with.

Agree, But let me elighten you with a couple of points.

1. This lady has issues if that is what she asks when you just recently met.

2. She seems insecure.

3. Always try to change the subject.

peace,

muhamed

Ante up wrote:

Wait a minute she has only been with 4 guys, but (at least) one of them was only a week ago.....right.

ding,ding,ding,ding,ding,ding,ding,ding,ding,ding, we have a winner!

"More than you, honey."

Unless you're Bill Clinton, in which case you tell Gennifer Flowers that "Hillary has probably eaten more pussy than I have."

Just tell her truth, which in your case is most likely 0.

another athiest wrote:

The correct answer is ....

"Enough so that I'm not a complete rookie, but not so many that I sleep with everyone. I'm very selective about who I want to be intimate with. And you ?"

Next time you'll know.

The actual answer is:

5

If you've just slept with a girl, and she asks you, you say she's #5.

If you haven't and asks, say you've slept with 5 in the past.

Here's the reasoning:

1. 5 is a nice number: not so much that you're a rookie, not to many that you'll sleep with anything.

2. By memorizing the number 5, you don't have to spend a couple seconds thinking about it, thus proving to her that you're lying.

3. If you're in college: the first was your fisrt high school girlfriend, the second was another girl in high school (summertime, maybe?). Then two/three more in college. College girls don't care as much about the number, it's completely believable, and they'll want a man with a little more experience.

4. If you're out of college, girls for some reason get a little more picky, and like to know that you're a stable person. In that case, you slept with the girl you dated in high school, two college girlfriends, then one/two afterwards.

By the way, if she says anything other than 3, don't sleep with her.

She was most likely lying about it being a week ago. She wanted you to feel like getting with people is no big deal(which it isn't) so you would answer her next question truthfully. She has probably gotten with 1 or no people so she is insecure and protection herself.

"protecting" my bad.

Lie and say what all women say. Once! That way you're not coming across as totally inexperienced but still pure enough for her liking.

Or tell her you're a virgin. When she laughs and questions you further you say. Numbers don't matter, you're all that matters to me now and put your hand on her hand.

Yep wrote:

Lie and say what all women say. Once! That way you're not coming across as totally inexperienced but still pure enough for her liking.

Or tell her you're a virgin. When she laughs and questions you further you say. Numbers don't matter, you're all that matters to me now and put your hand on her hand.

Thus proving that all men are pigs, and that all you want is to get into her pants.Seriously, that would creep anyone out.

Was she really a woman? Lots of trannies and dragsters out there.

Answer her question with a question...

Does your sister and mother count?

It's never a good idea to answer this question whether you're a guy or a girl and people who ask or keep digging for answers are insecure. It's just opens up the door for the person to find something wrong with you. You can have sex with one person and catch a disease so the number isn't everything.

"Wouldn't" is an awfully long time sweetheart!Clearly the question has been answered in numerously agreeable ways. But it speaks to a lesser issue. The real issue is to get a chick so into you that she doesn't give a rat’s ass about how many partners that you've had. So in the beginning avoid the question at all costs until you've had a chance to work your magic (assuming you've got some magic to work - if not I'd be happy to give you some pointers).Another lesson here is to stay away from women who think that 8 is too much or would never sleep with a stranger or find sexual experience unpalatable. Life is too short to be stuck with PNS later in life.

concerned female wrote:

I wouldn't have sex with a stranger.

i actually agree with this -this girl sounds psycho, it is absolutely none of her business and if she absolutely demaneds to know she ain't worth the timesay something like, I'm sorry that is very personal to me -something along those linesthere are people who are married who don't know the exact number their spouse slept with before they met each other (me and my wife included - why would I want to know or need to know how many people she slept with... we are committed we trust each other, we are disease free... end of story)

marijuologist wrote:

concerned female wrote:

We never slept together, but I considered it. My number is 0, so double that and it's still 0. I'm not "waiting" (and I'm still young - college), but it bothers me if a guy I'm with has such a high number. Does that mean he has low standards? That doesn't make me feel too special. Plus I'd worry if he were comparing me to all the other women he's been with.

So you think you have some kind of entitlement to the details of a stranger's sex life? I would tactfully decline to answer the question, and if that was a problem for the girl, no skin off my back... I ain't jumping through hoops to get laid.

Surprise! wrote:

In what world is 8 too many? Unless you're 18, 8 isn't that many at all.

Exactly. I kept track until I reached 100 then I threw out my black book. I was still in college too. A couple times I logged-in 3 within 24 hours.

If she would have asked me, "How many have you been with?"

I would have replied, "You mean so far today?"

She's had 4, the last one was last week, and she's pissed that you've had 8?

Dump her sorry ass. Sounds like you might be the rebound boy. Don't let her.

Truth wins:

"No new partners since my latest STD test results if that's what you are asking... and you".

"I take my health seriously and before we get sexually involved we'll have a conversation about STDs and protection... are you thinking we need to have it tonight(now)?"

"What testing protocol do you use? Along with always using a condom. I'm tested for STDs every 6 months."

"I've averaged about 2 new partners yearly". Do not include the math!!!!!!! let her figure it out...so since 1958 that makes it just about a hundred huh?.

Please DO NOT look around the bar and say I see three references here now, if that's not enough there will be more later... that only worked with enlightened feminist bra burners during the late '60s. They demanded their rightful place on top during sex ... yeah.... pretty much got laid just by saying "You can be on top."

Sucks to be young in todays STD/AIDS environment doesn't it?

I was really lucky had 20/25 years of pretty uncomplicated 'sexual revolution' sex, post birthcontrol and pre AIDS.Being the manager of singles bars didn't hurt either ;)

Whatever number you would have said in that situation would have been wrong. Why? Because men are ALWAYS wrong. Here's a question for you: "If a man says something in a forest and if his wife is not around to hear it, is he still wrong"?