As long as this didn't happen at a Coldplay concert, who cares? Our sexual behavior should be private. Our indiscretions, which are a reflection of our character, aren't as meaningful to the public as those directly affected. We are not directly affected, unless we presume to be. Which is a mistake.
In the 1990's Duke basketball megastar Christian Laettner was widely rumored to be gay. Read more about it here (caution: the article contains both three-letter and six-letter slurs for gay people):
So what did Laettner do about it? He held hands with his male roommate while the media were watching. I don't think that's what's going on here...but, in a sense, it is. We are talking about this as if we were in Family Court splitting up both parties assets.
