Cool story. If you make so much money then a roster will be available for you with a little work. Keep the current GF as roster girl #1 and go from there. Maximum smashing, minimal feelings/talking.
Without more context I can’t tell that she’s actually doing anything wrong. Sounds like you’re reading into this way too much. Who knows what she’s actually trying to say?
Women get a lot of flack for running s**t tests on their men. Run some back. Tell her no once in a while, or correct her on things.
If she can handle YOUR crap maybe she’s alright. Sounds like you’ve been bad at communicating for a long time.
Cool story. If you make so much money then a roster will be available for you with a little work. Keep the current GF as roster girl #1 and go from there. Maximum smashing, minimal feelings/talking.
ok so you're the roster guy.
Kinda not surprising though. You're the rightwoke version of the angry fat blue haired ladies.
Cool story. If you make so much money then a roster will be available for you with a little work. Keep the current GF as roster girl #1 and go from there. Maximum smashing, minimal feelings/talking.
Kind of off-topic, but are women really cool with this sort of arrangement? Seems like it's not completely uncommon, but I just have a hard time seeing it. How does it usually work? One main woman and then some fwb types on the side?
My girlfriend seems to think she is on the same level as me, and it honestly kind of pisses me off. I know that could come off as narcissistic, but it's true. I am smarter than her and have made objectively way better decisions in my life. I have a substantially better career than her, and my net worth is probably 10X what hers is despite the fact we are the same age. I was multi-time state champ in high school, competed at nationals, ran NCAA D1 and mixed it up with guys who went on to qualify for the Olympics. I realize that might sound silly in some regards, but it's not a small achievement to compete (at anything) at a level that less than 1% of the population ever exists on. I was not Olympic material, but I was close enough to it to know what that looks like and what it takes to perform at that level.
My girlfriend sometimes makes comments or says things in our conversations where it's clear to me that she sees us as equals and that her abilities are on par with mine, which is ridiculous, honestly. She does have some skills that I lack, and I appreciate that about her, but in terms of what level of performer we both are, how strong of a person we both are, intelligence, decision making, etc, it is not close.
I have been letting this slide for about a year now, but I'm thinking of finding a way to bring it up, in a lighthearted way. Not sure how well it will go over, but I kind of don't care, honestly.
This does not simply come across as narcissistic...it *is* narcissistic. What, exactly did you want us to do? Answer your question "Should I let it slide or being it up in lighthearted way?" OK...if you have so little regard for other people's feelings that you "don't care" how this thread will go over, then why not follow that instinct to guide you in your relationship. No matter what happens, you'll still be better than her, right?
My girlfriend seems to think she is on the same level as me, and it honestly kind of pisses me off. I know that could come off as narcissistic, but it's true. I am smarter than her and have made objectively way better decisions in my life. I have a substantially better career than her, and my net worth is probably 10X what hers is despite the fact we are the same age. I was multi-time state champ in high school, competed at nationals, ran NCAA D1 and mixed it up with guys who went on to qualify for the Olympics. I realize that might sound silly in some regards, but it's not a small achievement to compete (at anything) at a level that less than 1% of the population ever exists on. I was not Olympic material, but I was close enough to it to know what that looks like and what it takes to perform at that level.
My girlfriend sometimes makes comments or says things in our conversations where it's clear to me that she sees us as equals and that her abilities are on par with mine, which is ridiculous, honestly. She does have some skills that I lack, and I appreciate that about her, but in terms of what level of performer we both are, how strong of a person we both are, intelligence, decision making, etc, it is not close.
I have been letting this slide for about a year now, but I'm thinking of finding a way to bring it up, in a lighthearted way. Not sure how well it will go over, but I kind of don't care, honestly.
This does not simply come across as narcissistic...it *is* narcissistic. What, exactly did you want us to do? Answer your question "Should I let it slide or being it up in lighthearted way?" OK...if you have so little regard for other people's feelings that you "don't care" how this thread will go over, then why not follow that instinct to guide you in your relationship. No matter what happens, you'll still be better than her, right?
It's not narcissistic to want someone to know their place. Any employee who mouths off to the boss or tries to do things their own way in contradiction to the boss's orders is going to be reprimanded. It's pretty simple.
My girlfriend seems to think she is on the same level as me, and it honestly kind of pisses me off. I know that could come off as narcissistic, but it's true. I am smarter than her and have made objectively way better decisions in my life. I have a substantially better career than her, and my net worth is probably 10X what hers is despite the fact we are the same age. I was multi-time state champ in high school, competed at nationals, ran NCAA D1 and mixed it up with guys who went on to qualify for the Olympics. I realize that might sound silly in some regards, but it's not a small achievement to compete (at anything) at a level that less than 1% of the population ever exists on. I was not Olympic material, but I was close enough to it to know what that looks like and what it takes to perform at that level.
My girlfriend sometimes makes comments or says things in our conversations where it's clear to me that she sees us as equals and that her abilities are on par with mine, which is ridiculous, honestly. She does have some skills that I lack, and I appreciate that about her, but in terms of what level of performer we both are, how strong of a person we both are, intelligence, decision making, etc, it is not close.
I have been letting this slide for about a year now, but I'm thinking of finding a way to bring it up, in a lighthearted way. Not sure how well it will go over, but I kind of don't care, honestly.
Do you want a partner or someone who thinks you're better than them?
You either need to appreciate your girlfriend more or think less of how great you are.
My girlfriend seems to think she is on the same level as me, and it honestly kind of pisses me off. I know that could come off as narcissistic, but it's true. I am smarter than her and have made objectively way better decisions in my life. I have a substantially better career than her, and my net worth is probably 10X what hers is despite the fact we are the same age. I was multi-time state champ in high school, competed at nationals, ran NCAA D1 and mixed it up with guys who went on to qualify for the Olympics. I realize that might sound silly in some regards, but it's not a small achievement to compete (at anything) at a level that less than 1% of the population ever exists on. I was not Olympic material, but I was close enough to it to know what that looks like and what it takes to perform at that level.
My girlfriend sometimes makes comments or says things in our conversations where it's clear to me that she sees us as equals and that her abilities are on par with mine, which is ridiculous, honestly. She does have some skills that I lack, and I appreciate that about her, but in terms of what level of performer we both are, how strong of a person we both are, intelligence, decision making, etc, it is not close.
I have been letting this slide for about a year now, but I'm thinking of finding a way to bring it up, in a lighthearted way. Not sure how well it will go over, but I kind of don't care, honestly.
Do you want a partner or someone who thinks you're better than them?
You either need to appreciate your girlfriend more or think less of how great you are.
Women need to feel like their man is better than them in order to be happy and for the marriage to work. This is common knowledge.
For men status, money or game is primarily what attracts the females.
Men are primarily attracted by young, fertile n good looking girls. So u can not really compare apples n peers. If your girl is hot n takes care of the home in a good way you are kinda on the same level.
My girlfriend seems to think she is on the same level as me, and it honestly kind of pisses me off. I know that could come off as narcissistic, but it's true. I am smarter than her and have made objectively way better decisions in my life. I have a substantially better career than her, and my net worth is probably 10X what hers is despite the fact we are the same age. I was multi-time state champ in high school, competed at nationals, ran NCAA D1 and mixed it up with guys who went on to qualify for the Olympics. I realize that might sound silly in some regards, but it's not a small achievement to compete (at anything) at a level that less than 1% of the population ever exists on. I was not Olympic material, but I was close enough to it to know what that looks like and what it takes to perform at that level.
My girlfriend sometimes makes comments or says things in our conversations where it's clear to me that she sees us as equals and that her abilities are on par with mine, which is ridiculous, honestly. She does have some skills that I lack, and I appreciate that about her, but in terms of what level of performer we both are, how strong of a person we both are, intelligence, decision making, etc, it is not close.
I have been letting this slide for about a year now, but I'm thinking of finding a way to bring it up, in a lighthearted way. Not sure how well it will go over, but I kind of don't care, honestly.
Both of you sign up for the next race at your local village. Then just literally blow her doors off and just wait at the finish line for her while smiling as you look back and forth between her face and your watch. Then she will see that you are not someone to be fukked with. She will give you the respect you deserve. Compliment her in her humble moment so she doesn't become angry that you are better. Tell her she is fast for a girl and joke that the hardest part of the race was that she was so far away from you. Be a cocky arsehole. Girls like that. Girls won't see themselves as equal to you if you look like an alpha after sending over half of a field of hundreds of runners home devastated.