How to explain the "Childless Cat Lady" phenom?

The world is not vastly overpopulated. It is overpopulated with too many people who are 70+ years old. This is not a natural phenomenon of human history or human physiology because we have lots of technology to keep sick people alive for many years (dialysis if their kidneys fail as an example, advances in surgery especially with all kinds of heart procedures for people whose hearts are failing.). Sometimes young people (sadly) need these treatments, but it’s mostly old and aging folks. And one thing I’ll tell you about human beings is that most old people like life more than young people. They will do every possible thing to extend their life for a few more years, unless they are terminally ill with something like metastatic cancer. Next, while the childless lady phenomenon is pathetic and sad in my eyes, it’s understandable in a way. Society is very greedy, healthcare in America sucks, inflation rises, America is divided, and a sense of community is weak in America. People who have already reached the top (many white women), dont view themselves as having to fight for anything else. As such, they regress to being a childless cat lady, maybe gets married at most but no children under any means. The world is too cruel for that. Meanwhile, poorer demographics , such as both legal and illegal Mexicans and other Central Americans, view America as a world of opportunity and a step up (even with Americas massive problems) compared to their dangerous and corrupt former countries. That is why the Mexican community is growing at a faster rate than any other community in America by far, especially the white community. It’s all psychological and about class and culture.

Two friends of mine are both engineers in the PNW with solid incomes and stable long-term jobs. In their early 40s, they finally succumbed to pressure to have kids, even though they have challenging family history and were living an enjoyable active lifestyle filled with travel and outdoor adventures. After their first son was 2, they decided to have one more to avoid having an only child. Both kids have serious emotional issues and have Autism/ADHD. They have spent years taking both kids to specialists, tutors, and special programs to work through their challenges. Their careers have both suffered, so not only are they stressed about having two kids that might get suspended from school every week for numerous rules violations, they worry about losing one or both of their incomes due to the excessive absences and mid-day departures for yet another school-related drama. Their kids fight with each other, sometimes violently, and even trying to go out for a date night once a month or so ends up in an aborted attempt because they get a call from the babysitter that another incident has occurred. They have both confessed to my wife and me that they love their sons but secretly wish they'd never had children.

Coming from a family for 5 children, three of which were borderline psychopaths and severe drug addicts, my parents also suffered immensely. My sister's two children have given her little joy and still have extreme emotional issues into their 30s, and they continually move in and out of their home. One of my closest friends committed suicide because having three children overwhelmed her emotionally fragile psyche, and she had a complete breakdown leading to her choice to end things. Another of my closest friends has two Autistic children, one of whom will never be able to function on her own as an adult and the other, although high-functioning, has been suspended from school for threatening to kill his classmates and parents; he is turning 18 soon, and his parents honestly live in fear that their son could murder them. Yes, I do have friends with wonderful kids, none of the drama the others have experienced, and are very happy to have such well-adjusted families. But it's not even 50/50 - it's more like 75% bad, 25% good outcomes.

So, yeah, do I or my childless cat lady wife regret not playing russian roulette with the kid thing and enjoying our lives without any of the drama so many of our friends and family members have experiences? Not on your life.

Because they are gold diggers waiting for their billionaires and multi-millionaires which will never happen. The billionaire and multi-millionaire men are too busy doing the hot young women to waste their time on the PC self-righteous childless cat ladies. Truly a sad situation yet I enjoy watching it nonetheless the cat ladies are getting what they deserve.

go ask the average incel if they want to date 300lbers and let me know if they will date any woman. Most have absurd standards. Most incels should be relabeled vocels. Go look at how hard Jamin tried to be single..

Please watch the first 20 minutes of this movie. It ducks after 15 minutes. Here is a snippet. I just can’t believe this was 2006!

I dunno, man.....I'm living my best life in the suburbs.

The city life kinda sucks nowadays.

Literally zero % of your post is true. I am sorry.

I don't have to ask, that's my exact situation: I'm 6ft 130lbs and a 5ft 300lbs woman turned me down because of my looks and my small d.

Correction, it has never been a worse to be a subpar man. In the old days, if you were a sub-par man you could count on the fact that could still get a decent job and status, you could still find a partner because their choices were limited.

For awesome dudes like me, it's a great time. We are in demand.

The thing this thread ignores is Kids are freaking expensive. The irony is all the conservative policies have made kids more expensive thus driving down birthrates. Good job idiots!

Jokes on them. My girlfriend is a Polish beauty.

How does that work?

TBT: Hi, my name is truthbetold0 - would you like to grab coffee sometime?

Bertha: Hi, I'm Bertha, I'd love to. I'm always in the mood for a super grande pumpkin spice frappuccino with extra whip

TBT: <unzips pants>

Bertha: WTF - why would you take that thing out in the middle of Costco?!?!?! Get away from me creep

TBT: MY SMALL PENIS LETS ME DOWN AGAIN!!!!

You into femboys? You sound HOT AF!! Plus you can bust in me and not worry about pregnancies

Pretty much idiocracy in a nutshell

Incels who can't get laid vs lesbians - the final battle

No wonder god have given up and just wants us to nuke ourselves to oblivion already, either that or this is the punishment lol actually wtf is wrong with yall

If you want a realistic view of the situation and where it is headed, search a Substack piece by 'Bright Eyes' called "The f--- rate is about to implode"

How can people keep saying this forum is 'right-wing' when posts like this get upvoted?

brojos are far right