Why does she keep giving me mixed signals then ?
Why does she keep giving me mixed signals then ?
How am I a creep
Ong shes pretty1 wrote:
Why does she keep giving me mixed signals then ?
"She doesn't show interest in me at all". How is that mixed signals?
She agreed my offer to run with her. Isn’t that a mixed signal ?
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Ong shes pretty1 wrote:
She agreed my offer to run with her. Isn’t that a mixed signal ?
She could just be being polite. We can't know the whole deal but I will say she can probably see your condescension seeping through. Her one-word answers might be because she's having a hard time keeping up a conversation at that pace, but I also see no inkling she likes you, as you yourself say. Just be chill, friendly but like you would be with everyone.
I'm not willing to say you have no chance, but you definitely need to back off a bit. Stop making such obvious efforts and see if she starts to wonder where you went. Don't play mind games; just stop trying so hard. Speak to her when it makes sense to speak to her, but nothing beyond that. Be nice to both her and those around you. Remain confident, work hard, and continue to produce good results. If she likes you, she'll let you know at some point.
Leave her alone
She is not into you. At that age, it's all about physical attraction. I know people say this all the time but there is a plenty of fish in the sea.
People think runners are geeks and def not attractive so
Ong shes pretty1 wrote:
She agreed my offer to run with her. Isn’t that a mixed signal ?
No. Being polite isn't a mixed signal, it is being polite.
Do you really want this slow poke polluting your gene pool? For the love of your future kids, move on.
Ong shes pretty wrote:
I can’t talk to her right, when I try she kinda gets intimidated by me. I’m the fastest guy. I try to talk to her but I’m met with 3 word answers. I even tried to run with her on easy days since she’s far at the back but she barely engages with my conversation but then it became so uncomfortable to shuffle at her pace I started walking. I was able to match her pace for a while but she increased her speed. She then told me I don’t have to run with her and that I can go by my pace. She’s so quiet on this team but when I see her in the hallway I see her have fun with friends. Everyone agrees she’s hot tho. She looks better than all the other runners. But she doesn’t show interest in me. I’m guessing it’s intimidation. I’m a 4:30 guy and she’s what ? a 6:5X or 7:XX girl? I would be intimidated if I was that slow too but she’s also very hot. I’m interested in her but she doesn’t engage with this team at all. We have only 7 girls so it’s coed but she has friends outside this team. She is filled with them. But when it comes to in the team. She’s very quiet.
I tried inviting her to on a long run with me. I tried going so slow like a 10:00 pace and she had trouble keeping up after mile 5, she started walking which annoyed me because I was going so slow. She was quiet the whole run I tried initiating conversations but she wasn’t interested in the conversation she gave me a one word answers. Expect, she made one comment about the view, I didn’t have a reply so I just didn’t say anything. My coach was yelling at me telling me to run my own run and to not lag around. I’m also the star of this team but outside this team I don’t have the confidence to say a word to her because I’m not popular or known well outside the team. Should I just have her alone?
I complimented her form saying it’s “graceful” honestly speaking it’s not, her form is atrocious. I also told her she’s good for a girl. She thanked me for the first compliment but she didn’t reply to me when I said the second compliment. I think I might’ve messed up.
You write like a serial killer
She's running so slowly hoping you won't notice her or won't like being around a girl that is so slow. Once you move on to something or someone else then she will start busting out some fine times and placings.
How can you have so little self awareness you don't know if she is just being nice or flirting? Unless you are so socially awkward you have no intuirion this is a skill you home in middle school.
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This guy has no awareness. She’s probably just there to lose weight. I doubt that she cares about how fast you lag, 4:30 is slow
She doesn’t care that you are fast. You are probably coming off as cringy you can’t force someone to talk to you.