I told a girl I was disappointed in her

This thread is so vague that it's the posting equivslent of an inspired masturbation session with an anticlimactic orgasm.

Meant to say uninspired masturbation session.

it's pretty obvious what happened - the OP liked the girl, she hooked up with someone else, and he got upset.

Yep, guess he doesn't have what it takes to be the winner. Time to work on yourself OP, get after it, build the muscles, build the wallet. Women want results not excuses.

Pics?

Have you shared that with your therapist?

Your post needs way more context, but regardless here's some general advice.

Women do not understand the concept of accountability or apologizing. If they're caught doing something wrong they will emote and turn the issue back on you. Women manipulate men into pretending the issue didn't matter in the first place.

An ex gf forgot about our upcoming anniversary. I calmly told her I was disappointed. I could tell she was not as into the relationship as me at that point. She sobbed in the car for a half hour. I don't recall her acknowledging my side. This was the first time I'd experienced such manipulation and now I understand how to respond better.

It's hard for me to imagine a woman sobbing for half an hour after you "calmly" told her you were disappointed she forgot your anniversary.

Was it her slow 5K time?

Disappointed by, not in.

Small wonder she thinks you're a moron.

she didn't laugh at you ?

It's actually amazing how often this happens, to the point where you'd think dads would be telling their sons, don't do this with a girl you like.

were disappointed in her for a good reason - e.g. she drove home drunk after a party even though she's already gotten two DUIs in the past - or for a stupid reason - e.g. she bought namebrand cereal instead of storebrand? The fact that you didn't say what she did suggests that you know it's in the latter category.

Let me take a wild guess. You're into her but she is not into you and she got a new guy.

What happened? Did she sleep with someone else? This post is really odd because no one can form any kind of opinion as we don't actually know what happened! I mean, like someone else pointed out, it could be totally different situations - she murdered someone for example versus she got a B on a test. We don't know why yure disappointed.

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