>>>>>>You just shifted from the responsibilities and limitations on coaches to non-issues of recent graduates. Coaches should know and comply to the rules of the NCAA. If they don't, they are either stupid or like to have their own way so will play stupid in order to do so.
Boyfriends and girlfriends and mommies and daddies can drive student athletes to meets, proms, airports at will. NCAA coaches however have many rules to abide by. They can drive eligible student athletes on their squad list to meets, but they can't provide transportation for Saturday night pizza or when the student is redshirting - and it doesn't matter if the coach is full time or volunteer.
That's all simple stuff that any coach worth his salt knows, and if he chooses to ignore it, runs the risk of embarassing his athletes, himself, and the school he works for if someone blows a whistle on him. (Look out for the disgruntled athlete who got injured or the administrator who is zealous in the application of rules.)
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I can't see how all these rules can be policed. Surely they are in direct violation of one's constitutional democratic rights as governed by the law of the land and surely no-one, including the NCAA, would be above that. Any of these rules been tested in court?
People talk about "redshirt", maybe you have the "brownshirts" as well, that color of the old Nazi's, or is that the NCAA. Maybe the president of the NCAA should become president of the USA, and turn it into a dictatorship.
If you're not American some of these stupid rules sound absolutely ridiculous and extremely funny. You don't know how funny these are to someone unfamilar with such situations.