Things like infertility and miscarriage are more common than many think. If people are comfortable sharing something intensely personal, it can help others not feel alone in their grief, avoid feelings that it is their fault, etc. Kudos to Smith for her openness.
You’ve changed the issue. I’ve met women who very much wanted to start a family but suffered multiple miscarriages and couples who could not conceive after a long period of trying and finally had tests taken to see whose “fault” it was. It was very devastating for these couples.
Most people know someone that suffered a miscarriage or couples that can’t conceive. I don’t know why you believe people are unaware of these occurrences.
It’s up to her, but I just don’t see the need for empathy from people she has never met.
I hesitate to even engage but...one reason would be if she was 4 months pregnant probably a decent number of people knew. Instead of having to explain over and over again what happened (which would be awful), she can do it once on Instagram.
Also, there's nothing wrong with receiving empathy from strangers. I think YOU should probably examine why your initial reaction to this news is to be super judge-y and condescending.
I just don’t see the need for empathy from people she has never met.
Coming from a mental health professional: If this is your takeaway, you need to see a mental health professional.
As for the Schneider-Smith family, sending nothing but love and support. I’ve had a few friends miscarry over the last year, and it’s just devastating.
I’m so happy the tides are changing and these discussions are becoming less taboo. It’s a horrible situation, and they need all the empathy they can handle.
LRC Note. Our condolences to the Rachel and Mike. This thread is hard to moderate and has been closed to new posts.
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