Dudes: what's the biggest age disparity (older) that you've ever dated?

Hmmmm... wrote:

Former runner turned bodybuilder wrote:

30 yrs (59/29)

Met this gal at the gym who was doing some bodybuilding & crossfit stuff.

Didnt turn out good & only dated a short time because she's a single mom x 2 looking for a husband. 😬

At age 59 she should have no children, she should have adults. If she conceived at age 41, she would have an 18 year old which is not a child, so I assume you are saying she has not 1 but 2 kids under age 18, at age 59? That doesn't add up. If she has kids over the age of 18 then how does her being a single mom play into anything? While it's clearly possible for women to have children after the age of 41, the likelihood of having 2 after that age is highly unlikely. I don't believe your story.

You're confused: I'm 59 and she's 29.

I started working out at a new gym after the lockdowns in 2020 when the gyms reopened. I noticed she was watching me a lot during my workouts - so I eventually made the move with a cold approach. She liked my physique & liked her's & we had bodybuilding in common. But she had 2 kids; a 13 yr old & an 8 yr old. She had a crap job and two ex-husbands that weren't paying any child support. Despite the age gaps, she saw me as husband #3. Lol.🤣

Whoosh...wow, I guess you really are a bodybuilder!

An 18-year-old man bonked me in the butt for 9 hours straight. I was 22.

She was 10 years older, I was 39 and she was 49. It lasted about a year and then we became good friends like Jerry and Elaine.

So, she had a 13 year old at age 29, meaning she had a kid at age 16 and another at age 21? Yeah, OK, the story gets even better.

FYI: I think your apostrophe that should have been in didn't, somehow migrated into the word hers. Putting an apostrophe in "her's" would make it redundant. You're welcome.

Obvious guy is obvious wrote:

STEVE-O-MATIC wrote:

My wife of 22 years is 7 years older than me. But she's Chinese so she looks a decent 5 years younger than me.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CCap8wEUIAA_JFR?format=jpg&name=900x900

Fine by me LOL. Most American women look like shyte once they hit their mid 20s. Many are total disasters by their mid 30s with enormous disgusting guts and loud mouths.

Kobbs Hessler wrote:

Well, "dated" is a strong word. That means going out in public and others knowing you're an item. If just hooking up counts, then several +10 and one +15. All were legit great personalities with good attitudes and spirited shagging.

Fair point, hook-ups and booty calls aren't "going on a date." For clarity's sake, let's go with the Clintonian "had relations." The only thing that doesn't count is if it's a purely business transaction.

dullard wrote:

10 years and it was a man. You didn't specify straight dudes. shrug It only lasted about 8 months because wait for it, he was too immature.

WTF?

25 years. I was in my late 20s and going through one of my bouts of self-loathing. She was in my running club at the time and asked me out to see a performance by a local theater troupe. Then we went back to her place, threw down some drinks and made like bunnies, twice, and I spent the night. I told her I'd call her but every time I thought about calling I just hated myself too much to follow through. She wound up sending me a pissed off email like a week later all but accusing me of rape. Yeah, I used her but I'd never made any promises and certainly didn't force her, she asked me to wear a Jimmy hat.

About the same time, I had relations with another woman in that running club 21 years older than me after a party at her house. She had a lot less anxiety, far more relaxed and into coitus, and we wound up having routine booty calls for about 15 years after that whenever I was single. I was definitely too immature for her yet she kept putting out relationship feelers that I always shut down.

Alberto & Galen?

I don't what your problem is unless you think it's impossible for a 29 female to date a 59 yr old man in a gym setting? She got pregnant at 16 in HS and being a devout Catholic, she didn't consider an abortion (and she didn't drop out of school either 👍). The relationship with the father didn't work out & she later met another guy where she had child #2. That relationship didn't work out & and when I met her she was just getting out of what she described as a "toxic" relationship with an immature party guy that couldn't hold a decent job. So, maybe she was just on the rebound when she showed interest in me. Being a widower myself & all ready have raised two kids, I was isn't interested in a LTR with the role of becoming a step father, though we share this passion for bodybuilding.

After I graduated from college in 1983, I did 10 yrs of competitive bodybuilding & powerlifting winning a regional title in BB in 88 (I had no trouble dating attractive women who were into fitness & working out at the gyms). After that I transitioned to running/triathlon for the next 25 yrs or so when I met my wife (a triathlete) settled down, had kids and all that. In my mid-50s, due to chronic injuries & post-traumatic OA, running was pretty much done & I transitioned back to bodybuilding. I work out at the gym 6 days a week & have a muscular, atheistic "Frank Zane" type physique that attracts women almost as much as it did back in 80s. And some of the up & coming young bodybuilders at the gym are always asking my advice & opinion on things - so life is good at the gym. 💪

Do you show your son these posts too?

I wouldn't say we "dated," but I slept with a 46 year old when I was 26/27 several times. It was actually awesome. She had divorced recently and met someone her age before long, but we both had a nice time together and appreciated it. We still follow each other on social media and message each other once in awhile. She's probably 50 now? I would do it again and be down to start up again if she was single. The stereotype that middle aged women are better in bed has held true in my experience.

After my divorce at 40 I dated a women who was 46 it was great, she was in fantastic shape but past the age of children so didn't believe in condoms, was an badass karate instructor who had won numerous national championships and competed at the Olympics, worked as a military translator and spoke 9 languages proficiently and I'll never forget our first date when she asked me if I anyone in my family was dating a Russian national or if I had lived with anyone from Russia in the past 5 years. She said it wasn't a deal breaker but made things much more challenging to date.

She had gone through SERE training for her job and was like yeah the being outside in the elements part sucked but the simulated torture was a joke I got hit much harder in karate and I am flexible so 2 hours in a small cage wasn't too bad.

Her schedule was crazy she worked as a translator and was often in Eastern Europe or the Middle East and so things petered out after a while.

On the opposite end When I was 29 I dated a 21 year old and that lasted a year, unfortunately we were at different places in our lives. I think had she had a couple more years out of college we might have gotten married but so it goes.

I got divorced at 37 and immediately started dating a nurse at my doctor's office. She was a very hot 47. We had a thing going for three years. When she turned 50 I was amazed at how much I was liking shagging a 50 year old woman. One of the best I ever had.

7 years, 22/29. I was fresh out of college, attracted to her because I was fed up with having to deal with the immaturity and drama of sorority sister types in college and she was emotionally mature (on the outside). Seemed like she had her stuff together which was a gracious change of pace. What I had not realized is she had dated 4 other men in the same office within the past 2 years, and had been engaged to a 50 year old man less than 6 months prior.

Chick ended up being an emotional train wreck and wanted a marriage and kids immediately and at one point actually gave me a deadline. Would not allow me to wear protection in bed nor see her birth control (to see if she was actually taking it). She claimed her body was "beginning to break down" and she would be unable to have kids at 30. Needless to say it didn't work out. The greatest irony is our first date was at church.

My wife is 10 years older than me, I’m 34. ONLY MESS WITH GIRLS WHO GOT SOMETHING TO LOSE - J COLE

I met my wife in when I was in college. I was a lowly undergrad and she was in my statistics class. Come to find out she was the grad asst. for the class. We didn't go out until after the term ended. Got married a few years after that. She was 8 years older than I was. After she passed away (cancer) I dated a number of ladies. One was 22 years younger than me. I was 46 and she was 24. She wanted to have kids but I already had two and didn't want to go down that road again. We parted on good terms and are still friends.

I was dating two 19 year olds in Kyiv when I was 45.