Have seen it 3 times. This 100% spot on. If it lasts too long, one or the other is unable to hide their “defects” of character
Have seen it 3 times. This 100% spot on. If it lasts too long, one or the other is unable to hide their “defects” of character
More sugar less spice wrote:
Was in one of these relationships with a late 30s wealthy married woman while I was in college. I did not have 2 nickels to rub together and she was loaded. Her husband was a CEO. She also worked (it's how we met) but it was on campus for peanuts. On and off for a year or so and primarily sexual.
How was the sex?
Rojo Bob wrote:
More sugar less spice wrote:
Was in one of these relationships with a late 30s wealthy married woman while I was in college. I did not have 2 nickels to rub together and she was loaded. Her husband was a CEO. She also worked (it's how we met) but it was on campus for peanuts. On and off for a year or so and primarily sexual.
How was the sex?
Isn't sex good for any 21 year old? She was experienced and I was not. Learned quite a bit and she had no problem with me being w/other girls. I was not her only side piece. Pretty ideal setup for me at the time, but there were no illusions on it being anything other than a fling.
Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
The stigma is all hot air. People are mad that the sugar daddy is a "player" and the sugar baby is "spoiled"--well okay the latter generalization is true. Others want him to settle down into the risky (look at divorce rates) and sometimes miserable trap of marriage and children (misery loves company) and that drives their animosity. But the arrangement can be beneficial for both parties as both can get what they want in the mutual partnership. Although it may be a pricey option for a man, marriage can be too.
I'm fine with women doing this if they have appropriate morals but if they're deceptive, shallow and selfish then it can be toxic. Marriage is an arrangement the same way a sugar daddy relationship is an arrangement. Both parties have desires that intend to be met. A stereotypical sugar daddy is an older man who's rich with a younger woman who's pretty that he pampers. For a rich man, being a sugar daddy may be a better alternative to marriage, especially if he's not seeking kids in the equation.
Nothing you wrote is actually what anybody has against it.
Everybody who has a problem with it, it is because they see it as prostitution and believe that prostitution is wrong.
And it is prostitution from a moral standpoint. And that is something I personally don't have a problem with. It isn't for me, but I believe people should have a right to make that decision for themselves.
This is actually a funny subject. 4 years ago after i got back from a vacation trip to Vegas i run into the desk person of a motel i used to live at about 15yrs ago. Anyways we made small talk and she asked me if i had a girlfriend to which i said no. She then tells me about her daughter who is single with 3 kids. So the mother gives me her daughters number and we soon start talking. Flash forward 6 months and i begin to find out that she has mental issues. I think she was raped a few times. Also i found out that her brother,son and the father of her 3 kids all died within a few years of each other. So i think there might be some PTSD going on also. Anyways i smiled to myself after finding out all this because her mom basically wanted a man to take care of her daughter. The daughter dropped out in 9th grade,Does not drive and does not ever want to learn how to(her words not mine),Does not know how to do simple tasks by herself like using a ATM card or even trying to fly on a plane by herself. The list goes on and on...................................... Anyways i did take care of her for awhile and was actually going to be the sucker and stay with her longterm. However last fall we decided to just be friends and she revealed to me that she was with someone while we were together. She tried to lie and act like i did something wrong.(See above sentence about mental issues). Anyways i was basically going to be her sugar daddy. Someone who will take care of her. Its sad really. She once told me all she could offer a man was her ass. I told her not to think that way. Even though in my heart i know she was dead serious.
oh geez wrote:
whynottryit wrote:
Work really hard, make good decisions, take a few risks, try to become wealthy, get married, have kids, a nice fulfilling life etc. OR become wealthy and become sugar daddy if you so choose. Don't know what the stigma is, but respect others opinions and their right to live however they'd like, as long as my desired way to live is also.
I have had completely platonic situations(those are very rare-every young woman seems to think that is what a sugar situation is-it is not) with some very nice, fit young women. Always do many fun activities, go out to eat, talk a lot, give advice or mentorship if it helps or is wanted and just enjoy time with a fit, beautiful woman.
Always includes all of that or I don't have interest in an arrangement, but yes 95% do also include s e x.
Ask away, I'd love to answer questions.
So we’re turning into Reddit?
Think they just knew it would get a rabid reaction from Steve the poor, so felt it was a safe trolling bet.