I am in mid 20s, and have a good job that pays well. The downside is I routinely work 60 to 100 hours a week. I had a really serious girlfriend from college for 3 years but after a year and a half of this lifestyle she was like you care more about work than our relationship. I told her that I cared more about making sure I was comfortable later in life because I eventually wanted kids. Anyway that was 6 months ago still single.
My roommate on the other hand works part time but spends an incredible amount of time with his girlfriend. I can't help but think even if he gets married to this girl he will eventually be unhappy because he setting himself to not make much money. He is smitten now but I want to tell him he should focus more on a career instead of sacrificing so much time to spend with this girl.
I should also say growing up I saw my parents fight a lot about money, almost lose our house and I was worried about it all the time. Basically I never want to live like that again and it is hard to see any marriage or relationship work where you were under the financial stress my parents went through.