You can't even get her quote right. She said: "I want to be in that final, and competing in the top, and competing for medals. I really do feel like that's possible."That's exactly what a competitor thinks. That's who she is, and it's who you're not. You're a loser.
If I was your coach I'd tell you "You're not going to be a good fit here. Perhaps you should think about transferring? There's a University in San Antonio that I think fit's your personality."
Winning isn't for everyone. Only winners get to do that.