I am bringing in realistic, humanitarian and pacifistic approach, aimed st solving the problem and preventing similar future catastrophes, unlike blood thirsty mob prevailing this forum.
You keep spouting insults without any reason. They are not worse, or better than any other country/army attacking someone.
Russia (not Russians, not Putin) invaded Ukraine without obvious aggressive provocation. It is undeniable. The thing is, there are many obvious issues that made it be "now, or never" issue for Russia, in regard to national security and vital interests of the country, as well as of Russian minority living in Ukraine. Russia simply did not have soft power means of defense to respond to soft power agression coming through Ukraine as a proxy of USA, but could not let it unanswered.
What you write about distinction btw Russian civilians and conscripted soldiers, has no logic. Outside of combat zone it is easy Army sits in their barracks, civilians are in their homes. It gets complicated when in combat zone someone intentionally make armed forces indistinguishable from civilians.
I do not know how conscription works in Russia, but principle of serving armies is that every couple of months new generation is recruited. They have couple months of training, serve for a year or so, then go home to stay in "reserve". So, these 130000 new ones are probably just new generation, they will probably never see the combat, excepth tose who volunteer.
Why don't USA (and any other country) army fire missiles on Washington and Pentagon, there is surely no lack of reasons and motives? Because it is not the job Army does.