I understand quite well the machinations of the human mind in regards to sexuality, latent and manifest. I hope you understand the sociological concept of humans as a social and inter-adaptable being. We interact in and amongst groups. I'm in my early 20s. When I watch Family Guy or some other low-brow comedy show, I laugh. When I am with my "group" of like minded young men in their late teens and early twenties, I may laugh at vulgar jokes. When I'm at my summertime 9-5 and am bumping elbows with academics, I do not perpetuate such humor. I'm mature enough to recognize my environment and respond accordingly. I bet you are quite similar. Again, for brevity's sake, let's say you are in your mid-to-late twenties. You live in D.C. and work in a corporate office; you like what you do, so you work hard to make an honest and solid living for you and your partner (and for whoever else may depend on you). In the office, you are well respected for your work-ethic and class. When the weekend rolls around you loosen your tie and head to the bars to be with your friends outside of the office. You have a few beers, or maybe you just have a few Cokes becuase you don't like alcohol. All is well. Would you behave the same in the bar as you do at the office? How about in your own home? Your mother's home? You, my friend, (just like I do) live your life in several bubbles. That is how humans interact. You, just like I do, understand the implications of your actions within each bubble. Interaction between said bubbles is certainly commonplace, and it is up to us to reconcile the differences between each bubble to ensure a beneficial interaction. My alleged actions in my own locker room certainly wouldn't be acceptable in my office, would they? Of course not! Would I discuss a tough interval workout in a similar fashion as a tedious work spreadsheet? No! We are not two-faced or lack genuineness in conducting our lives in such a manner.
Long story short, this is not the same team that Mr. Holman was on. We are different individuals with different values, but those values are well placed, nonetheless. We still produce on the track (6 sub-4 minute milers, 8 men sub 1:50 in the 800, the ONLY school to send men in EVERY event from the 800 through the 10k to NCAA Outdoor nationals), and we are still well-respected and positively contributing members of the environment we live in. Most of us have impressive resumes, many friends/bosses/professors who will stand behind us when our character is called into question, and nearly all of us are completing our rigorous courses of study at GU with the goal of enacting real and positive change in this life. I will be defined by my day-to-day actions and interactions with those around me, and I'm willing to bet that if you took the time to get to know me for the things I do and will continue to do for those around me you would want to do two things: (1) you would want to buy me a beer, and (2) you would want a man like me to date your daughter.
For what its worth, the boy you are for some reason defending is a criminal. Nate Gordon was arrested in 2013 for selling marijuana. Coach Henner allowed him to retain his scholarship and spot on the team when he very easily could have been expelled from school.