fit and not-so-trim wrote:
Interesting...then there is that advent that one day he your son will win and in that effort, will have nothing left. If he collapses, nine times out of ten there will be no medical emergency (or 99 out of 100, more accurately), and he will want that moment AND will not want to be judged by it. Most importantly, he will not be showing off.
And maybe he will be out of breath, and maybe he will have to gather his wits, feelings, and physical self so that he can safely walk back to where he needs to go. Or to do a victory lap. Or to receive his medal.
And it is at that moment that the last thing he needs is someone evaluating the sum total of his race by his actions after crossing the tape.
Otherwise, let's just scrutinize winners to feel good. Let's forever condemn Uta Pippig and Bob Kempainen for what they looked like after finishing (hint: it wasn't pretty). Save pretty for the pageants. Racing is not always beautiful or handsome.
Please don't steal the spirit of the human soul because of what you think a race end should look like.
-Mike
1) Well, I've seen my son give all out efforts already and win already, and he has never done that. He's pretty philosophy-driven (which he got from me, but his philosophies aren't always the same as mine), so unless he changes his philosophy about flopping, then I don't see him doing this...again, unless he is really having a major issue.
2) We'll have to disagree about it showing off...it most assuredly is that.
3) I think calling out floppers who do so for attention is hardly "stealing the spirit of the human soul". That's a bit much, brother.