Great post SB. And I'm wondering if asdfsd etc is That Guy. Sounds a lot like him.
SB wrote:
asdfsdfsdfsdfsadfsadf wrote:Just to be clear, I am in no way affiliated with Speed River, or UoG - I don't know what they are teaching people. These are just the views of a guy who when he was 18 thought running was the most important thing in the world, but now at 50 thinks things like retirement savings and being able to pay the mortgage are somewhat more important.
Thanks to the eloquence of "not elite", I don't have anything more to add about the importance of building in the middle an lower ranges of our sport here in Canada. He/she has said it all succinctly and movingly. Ours appears to be the only sport where people who have no chance of being among the best in the world are encouraged, even expected, to abandon their involvement as soon as they no longer have a school team to contribute to, or have failed to demonstrate world class potential. The fan base of almost every sport is made up of thousands of people who continue to do their sport recreationally on some level, often quite seriously. Think about golf for a second. Or what about the countless other often very time consuming non-sport hobbies people routinely pursue while meeting all of their other duties. Serious recreational runners seem to be the only people who have to endure the question "are you STILL running" from well meaning friends and family (imagine someone saying "are you STILL golfing?").
That members of our OWN TRIBE could be encouraging the view that there is a time when runners should "move on" (and that time is after they graduate university!) is very discouraging and, I think, unwise. Young runners, don't listen to these people! They are careful, boring people, who have it all backwards.
I'm 50 now too, and I can tell you that things like making money and paying a mortgage are not "life" any more than eating, sleeping, and shitting are life. For all but the most uninteresting and uninspiring people, these are mere necessities, after which life-- i.e. the business of real self-actualization-- begins. This is a universal truth. Poor people everywhere don't just want food, shelter, and general economic security for their own sakes; they want these things so that they and their children can have actual LIVES beyond this realm of simple necessity.
I know literally dozens of people who continued running well beyond school, some of them very successfully, others less so. Decades later, I can't think of a single one who regrets his/her decision, no matter how rest of their life turned out; yet, I know many who wish they had continued, or who have begun to run seriously again much later in life, when they have even LESS time than they had in their 20s. Sure, serious running has had some impacts on the jobs, income, and parenting of the serious runners I know (but most are far better citizens and parents than the non-runners I know); but, it also made their lives much more interesting and fulfilling, just as the lifelong pursuit of ANY passion does. If you are one of the lucky ones for whom your means of paying the bills is also your life's passion, then great. For most people, however, happiness requires finding something beyond the quotidian that fires the belly and the imagination, and that brings them into contact with others outside or work or the simple cash nexus.
If love running and racing, then do it! Try to be the best you can be, but don't ever worry that if you're not as fast as other people, you're somehow wasting your time. You're only wasting your time if you're NOT doing the thing you love the most. News flash: we will all be dead soon anyway. If training to race makes you feel more alive, then RUN! Chances are you will make do, and likely still be a solid citizen and parent some day (or at least no worse than if you hadn't run); and, I promise you, you will never regret it.