CoachB wrote:
These 3 broad categories are pretty accurate, but I'd throw a couple of caveats in there.
1. Not every kid will fit neatly into one of your boxes. Be prepared for the Native born, single parent kid who actually is very motivated.
2. Do not conflate native born with white. We have plenty of native born....3rd....4th generation brown kids walking around the hallways here.
3. Foreign born or first generation kids can be much more difficult to get out for the team, as there are often cultural barriers that place sports at the bottom of the life priority totem pole. I'd agree that once you get those kids out and get them to buy in, they are great for your team.
All good points. I think having a strong family picture is a better indicator of who will put in the work rather than if the kid is black or white.
And there is no doubt that kids from poor single parent households will break the mould but you can tell pretty early who they are. I went to a lecture by Coach Marc Mangiocotti from Harvard and he talked about the kid on the team who is the poop magnet ( he actually uses a stronger word you can’t say here) - literally all the poop on the team is attracted to him. Almost every year a kid who will be our poop magnet starts goofing off early and passively undermining the workouts. It is almost always a kid from category one and he almost always brings in the other category one kids into it. The category one kids who don’t fall into that and keep working hard even though their peers are goofing off are the ones who have the self confidence to succeed.