I think what most people on your side of this issue fail to understand is what the point of sport is.
What are we doing as a species pouring all this time money and energy into sports?
To be a champion at something is to be a symbol of the qualities necessary to succeed at life - in anything. If you are able to use a combination of your natural gifts, determination, and focus to become a champion, you get rewarded for it. Why? Because you did something that we all admire and seek to emulate. That’s the point! That’s why you get the trophy.
In women’s sports, they may not be as physically impressive as the men, but it’s irrelevant because the women who become the best at their discipline possess the qualities that we all admire and want to copy. They’re a symbol of something to look up to.
But if you’re just a random person who wins out of sheer biological advantage - do you deserve to be a champion? No. And this is not to be mean or callous. But that person winning those races in California is not a special person. Leah Thomas is not a special person. They are obviously human beings deserving of love and respect, but they are not champions. They have not done the work necessary to be labeled extraordinary.
I ran 1:53 for 800 in college, which is the women’s world record. If I were to compete as a woman in the Olympics and win gold, do I deserve the respect of an Olympic champion? Absolutely, unequivocally not. I am not as special as that person. I did not develop the strength of will and character that it takes to become a genuine Olympic champion, and therefore deserving of the level of respect we typically give to those people.
Another thing a lot of people seem to miss is that the men’s division isn’t “for men,” it’s just the highest level of a given sport. The boys basketball team isn’t made for biological males, it’s just the best basketball team the school can put together. The same goes for college, and the NBA. If there’s ever a biological woman truly good enough, she would instantly be allowed to play on the men’s team. Because it isn’t the “men’s team,” it’s just the top of the heap.
Women’s sports were created so biological women could experience the same benefits of sports, and so we could reward and look up to the women who become legitimate champions within that category.