Teacher sends nude text to student

Honest question...am I in the minority when I say I dont find 15 year old girls attractive? I mean physically not mentally or looking for the whole package or anything. I think that they are more awkward boney mis-proportioned than say a 20 year old woman.

So how many people find 15 year olds more attractive here, and am I in the minority?

Not all 15 year olds are bony distance running waifs.

"Toots, are you the subject of this thread?"

Whoops, obviously I mistakenly assumed that you were one of those crude, juvenile LR posters, and that your comment was directed at my moniker, rather than the sexting teacher. Apologies Mr. Glare.

"GET A LIFE.A little jealous maybe?There was an entire South Park episode based on this."

I'm not really sure what to make of this post. I've never seen an episode of South Park, which suggests I may enjoy more of a life than you, Hey You.

Are you suggesting that I should look to South Park as the new bible of morality on pedophilia?

Jealous? Of what?? 15-year-olds being raped by 40-somethings? You need some serious help if that's what's swirling around in your brain.

ok...so chalk you up to the 15 year old list?

thats one down anybody else have an opinion?

I think I expressed my opinion previously, but just to drive it home...insecurity and immaturity don't do a thing for me. Doesn't matter what it comes packaged in.

Well, umm, if you're wanting to play hide the sausage with a teenager (and actually do it) and aren't at least a teenager yourself then you've got issues. That's what we're talking about here, a middle aged woman wanting to play hide the sausage with a teenager, how did you lose track so quickly?

;lkadf;lkj wrote:

Not all 15 year olds are bony distance running waifs.

True, in today's America most are chubsters if not outright obese. Those fat rolls are just so alluring.

Guardian Ad Litem wrote:

Are you suggesting that I should look to South Park as the new bible of morality on pedophilia?

I repeat. There is nothing pedophilic about a 15 year old.

Guardian Ad Litem wrote:

I think I expressed my opinion previously, but just to drive it home...insecurity and immaturity don't do a thing for me. Doesn't matter what it comes packaged in.

I wasn't talking to you...If you check the subject heading it shows who the post is replying to in this case it was ;lkadf;lkj

Cathy Schiro-O'Brien

Throttle down Sparky. Someone else posted here that the male in question may be strapping young buck.

Given the attitudes I have witnessed in 40-something married female coworkers, one of whom once put her birth control pills on my desk in front of me intoning "Just wanted you to know I have 'em" I deem ANYTHING is possible.

Whether your life is better than mine or you enjoy it more is NOT the topic, I make reference to a popculute show which addressed the issue in the OP.

Again, is it possible that (forgive me in advance) that you are not quite as...errr...sensuous as the alleged perp in this situation.

"thats one down anybody else have an opinion?"

Huh? Belly, I could have sworn you were asking if anyone else had an opinion, so I stated mine.

"Whether your life is better than mine or you enjoy it more is NOT the topic, I make reference to a popculute show which addressed the issue in the OP.Again, is it possible that (forgive me in advance) that you are not quite as...errr...sensuous as the alleged perp in this situation"

Mr. Get-A-Life, you made quality of life the topic when you originally responded to my post.

All I can tell you is that I've spent the last two decades making my life about protecting kids, and I'm crossing my fingers that you don't have any.

As sensuous as the alleged perp? Well, if that's your definition of sensuality, probably not, but there are a few ADULT men on these boards that seem to think I'm plenty sensual.

VlA D wrote:

Well, umm, if you're wanting to play hide the sausage with a teenager (and actually do it) and aren't at least a teenager yourself then you've got issues. That's what we're talking about here, a middle aged woman wanting to play hide the sausage with a teenager, how did you lose track so quickly?

You're the one who's confused, and you can't just say "nuh uh, YOU ARE!" and have it be true. You set up a complete straw man and then have no clue what to say when someone calls you on it.

Yes, I find some females in the 15-17 age range attractive. Absolutely.

You're the one who's way off track here, buddy ol' boy.

belly!!! wrote:

ok...so chalk you up to the 15 year old list?

Absolutely, yes.

Guardian Ad Litem wrote:

I think I expressed my opinion previously, but just to drive it home...insecurity and immaturity don't do a thing for me. Doesn't matter what it comes packaged in.

Well therein lies one of the fundamental differences between men and women that just about any man (and probably even this VIA D chick pretending she's a guy) would agree on.

Men are easily able to separate personality and intelligence and such from physical attractiveness. If a female is overtly physically attractive and approaches them requesting sex, the vast majority of men, barring any extreme circumstances, will say "yes" in a heart beat.

Reverse the role with women and no way does it happen like that. Women have a very real inability to separate the physical from the intellectual/emotional/behavioral.

I'm not saying that's a terrible quality, just pointing out that it very much does exist, so your opinion, while appreciated, isn't really going to further the argument on the males' side.

Guardian Ad Litem wrote:

I think I expressed my opinion previously, but just to drive it home...insecurity and immaturity don't do a thing for me. Doesn't matter what it comes packaged in.

The difference is that men prefer to be with insecure and immature girls/women, whereas women typically seek out confident and secure mates. By definition, the average 15 yr old girl epitomizes insecurity and immaturity. Men find this attractive because they desire imbalanced relationship with members of the opposite sex. Cross generational relationships, i.e., between older men and younger women, are alluring to men as the female's immaturity renders her unable to negotiate terms and conditions of their relationship. Older, wiser women tend to place more restrictions on the male partner both from a sexual and domestic point of view. Boys need to learn to respect women (and be more selfless in their relationships) and girls need to learn to respect themselves (and be less selfless in their relationships). If I am blessed with children in this life, this will be a key parenting goal of mine.

Nope. See above post.

They don't want relationship, they just want, Bang Bang Bang.