What about the reverse situation?
I'm 28 dating a 22 year-old chick with the intent of making it last.
What about the reverse situation?
I'm 28 dating a 22 year-old chick with the intent of making it last.
There is a 49 year old in our running community who does nothing but run. Well, he works, but he had no other interests, no children and is a total jerk.
At a race last summer, he didn't too well and was passed the last 200 meters by a female Kenyan. At the awards banquet, he was pounding the table in frustration, saying how he was going to "train his brains out and pound her in the ground next year."
If he only saw the people laughing at him. What a joke.
gdgdh wrote:
What about the reverse situation?
I'm 28 dating a 22 year-old chick with the intent of making it last.
Play on, player.
teenage wasteland wrote:
There is a 49 year old in our running community who does nothing but run. Well, he works, but he had no other interests, no children and is a total jerk.
At a race last summer, he didn't too well and was passed the last 200 meters by a female Kenyan. At the awards banquet, he was pounding the table in frustration, saying how he was going to "train his brains out and pound her in the ground next year."
If he only saw the people laughing at him. What a joke.
How is THAT related to this thread?
gdgdh wrote:
What about the reverse situation?
I'm 28 dating a 22 year-old chick with the intent of making it last.
Start your own thread.
Question: do you LIKE her?? Don't consider "Love". Do you genuinely LIKE HER??? If you don't like her and appreciate her just as she is with no need to change her, then stop thinking with you crotch (meaning she is regular piece of A for you) and move on. If you LIKE her be very clear and let her know that her comments are not appropriate for this time in your life and IF that is what she REALLY wants, then she needs to make some decisions.
bref_getit wrote:
Please advice
Are you kidding?? Are you on drugs??
Asking the bozos posting here what to do. LOL!!
If you've been dating her this long, you owe it to her to father at least one of her kids. I don't know why you are resistant to that, being a parent is the most rewarding experience a man can have. Stop diddling away an opportunity to grow as a person.
bref_getit wrote:
Hi everyone,
I am writing here because I need advice. I've been dating this woman (32yo) for 4 months now. The first 2 months were amazing, but I notice she starting to take me for granted... she started being more sleepy, preferes to stay home and watch tv. She also gained weight... I don't know but I do not find this attractive in a woman...
She has a little girl from her previous relationship, and she often speaks to me about how great it would be if she had a sister or a brother... I told her I am not ready and at this stage of my life, I have no wishes at all of having children at least for 2 or 3 years... but she keeps coming back with that topic. Is she trying to pressure me or what? It makes me uncomfortable and I told her that, but it comes back...
I do not wish to take any harsh decision, but should I break up with her? She says she is really comfortable and feels good with me, but the fact is... I do not want to have children unless I want children, and I would not want her to miss the opportunity of having children because she seems to really want others...
I am maybe not the good match for her...
Please advice
its really okay to date women/men different from our age, it just depends on the personality of the person. and if you really like her, go for it
http;//enticethem.net
bref_getit wrote:
Hi everyone,
I am writing here because I need advice. I've been dating this woman (32yo) for 4 months now. The first 2 months were amazing, but I notice she starting to take me for granted... she started being more sleepy, preferes to stay home and watch tv. She also gained weight... I don't know but I do not find this attractive in a woman...
She has a little girl from her previous relationship, and she often speaks to me about how great it would be if she had a sister or a brother... I told her I am not ready and at this stage of my life, I have no wishes at all of having children at least for 2 or 3 years... but she keeps coming back with that topic. Is she trying to pressure me or what? It makes me uncomfortable and I told her that, but it comes back...
I do not wish to take any harsh decision, but should I break up with her? She says she is really comfortable and feels good with me, but the fact is... I do not want to have children unless I want children, and I would not want her to miss the opportunity of having children because she seems to really want others...
I am maybe not the good match for her...
Please advice
its really okay to date women/men different from our age, it just depends on the personality of the person. and if you really like her, go for it
http;//enticethem.net
bref_getit wrote:
Hi everyone,
I am writing here because I need advice. I've been dating this woman (32yo) for 4 months now. The first 2 months were amazing, but I notice she starting to take me for granted... she started being more sleepy, preferes to stay home and watch tv. She also gained weight... I don't know but I do not find this attractive in a woman...
She has a little girl from her previous relationship, and she often speaks to me about how great it would be if she had a sister or a brother... I told her I am not ready and at this stage of my life, I have no wishes at all of having children at least for 2 or 3 years... but she keeps coming back with that topic. Is she trying to pressure me or what? It makes me uncomfortable and I told her that, but it comes back...
I do not wish to take any harsh decision, but should I break up with her? She says she is really comfortable and feels good with me, but the fact is... I do not want to have children unless I want children, and I would not want her to miss the opportunity of having children because she seems to really want others...
I am maybe not the good match for her...
Please advice
its really okay to date women/men different from our age, it just depends on the personality of the person. and if you really like her, go for it
http;//enticethem.net
J.R. wrote:
My experience is that, though women live longer on the average, their bodies wear out much sooner than men's and they are not as able to take care of themselves.
I strongly disagree with this. It's certainly true that older women are generally considered less desirable than older men, but that has more to do with what men and women value.
I think you notice the relative scarcity of very attractive older women, but you don't realize that very attractive older men are at least as scarce.
Aging well seems to correlate pretty well with class. Middle aged working-class people of both sexes usually don't age very well.
Guppy wrote:Dude, no offense, but wtf are you thinking seriously dating a 32 y/o woman at 25? I'm 25. I would happily pound a 32y/o V day in and day out, but I wouldn't date a woman 7 years older than me for anything but that. Have some self respect. While girls younger than us are typically annoying as fvck, you should still try to stick within the 21-29 age range for serious dating imo, and even 29 is pushing it if you're 25.
This is ridiculous. Why not have enough self respect not to date someone who is "typically annoying as fvck"?
Older women are fantastic, and not just to satisfy some silly Mrs. Robinson fantasy. They're better conversationalists, they have interesting life experiences, and they don't think that they're special princesses that need constant doting and attention. From college through my middle 20s I dated only women who were older than me. In fact, I dated a 31 year old when I was 25, and if I hadn't needed to move away for school, I would have married her.
The fact that a woman is in her 30s does not necessarily mean she's overweight or desperate to get married and knocked up. You obviously want to avoid the women who are looking to marry the first remotely eligible guy they can get. (Generally, though, when you're dating a woman in her 30s, the relationship should always be advancing. Unless you know for sure that she really doesn't care, don't assume you're just dating to have fun. It doesn't mean that you need to be thinking marriage on any kind of expedited timeline, but it does mean that you usually shouldn't be dating if it ever becomes clear to you that you couldn't see yourself getting married.)
You're dating 4 months and she's talking kids and saying she's "comfortable" with you? Dude, since you are 25, I would RUN from that...seriously. Single mothers, ESPECIALLY ones over 30 who want more children are very desperate. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who is desperate.
While people of different ages and stages in life sometimes get together and it works out, it's just one more hurdle to jump. I wasn't ready for children at age 25 either which is why I waited until I was 29. YOU wait until you are 29 and then she's 36 and has a greater chance of having issues either getting pregnant or with defects.
Go find a woman who is 24-27 years old who is single with no children...that's my suggestion...that's what I would tell my son.
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