you're from texas.
you're from texas.
confused5 wrote:
I've seen different sites (askmen.com for example) that say that if you have "money", women will chase you. How much money do they mean? $150,000 a year? $500,000 a year?
It doesn't have to do with how much you make, but how much you spend.
The girl wants to see the nice clothes, the hot car, the big house. She don't care if you're living paycheck to paycheck so long as you present yourself as rich.
txRUNNERgirl wrote: Do you have your own place or do you live in your mom's basement?
Which is preferred? I'm hardly married to my place, and my mom does have plenty of space in her basement, if you reckon that'll make me attractive to a better class of wimmin.
Can she cook?
You need a lot of money to get most top shelf American women, they have euphamisms for it (stable, ambitious, independent, etc.) but marrying a man with a lot of money is their highest priority for those who plan to get married and crap out a couple of kids. Of course they tend to be shallow. Ask Donald Trump. He is butt ugly but rich and has women draped all over him. One broken condom and they are set for life. Put him behind the counter at McDonald's and he would not get the time of day and they would all head for the hills.
Notakicker wrote:
Sensible women look for potential husbands with stability, values, and enough money to support a family and retire.
carefully analyze what you just said. if the third aspect ($$$) does not meet criteria i can confidently say the woman will choose the man with enough money to support family than the man who may not even if he turns out much more stable and has better values than the man the woman ended up going after. so it just reconfirms the theory that money is the root of a females attraction...and plus it happened to my friend.
My wife was reading this thread over my shoulder.
Her comment(and I shit you not)was.
Quote.
"It makes no difference so long as you have a Decent sized Dick."
They are ALL prostitutes it is only the price that varies.
dsertyg wrote:
They are ALL prostitutes it is only the price that varies.
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go to Vegas. Or Biloxi. Cheapest women you can find anywhere guys. Win 500 in a casino. BOOM. chicks all over you. Whites, Blacks, Asians your choice.
txRUNNERgirl wrote: Can she cook?
No, not at all. But I'm pretty good in the kitchen.
So what exemption did you qualify under, Snatch?
Notakicker wrote:
Sensible women look for potential husbands with stability, values, and enough money to support a family and retire.
txRUNNERgirl wrote:
This is a good answer. Sure there are materialistic, superficial women out there, but you may not want to attract them. For sensible women, it's more important what you do with your money than how much you have. Are you smart with your money or are you in debt? Do you have a career you love? Do you have your own place or do you live in your mom's basement? Stability, maturity, values, etc. are more important than how rich you are.
Replace "women" with "people" and you'll have mutual attraction. In an age of equality we should all carry our own weight.
Money does matter to women. Women want guys with good jobs who make money to take them out.
If you are over 35 years old and still rent an apartment and don't own a condo or house then that is the first indication to a woman that even though you may seem like you have money, in reality you don't.
Also, dress decent, get a clean shave, etc but don't look gay or be a metrosexal. If you make money but look like a slob, she won't want to be seen with you on a date.
A Cons Piracy wrote:
It doesn't have to do with how much you make, but how much you spend.
The girl wants to see the nice clothes, the hot car, the big house. She don't care if you're living paycheck to paycheck so long as you present yourself as rich.
That's funny. I was just about to say the exact opposite- that I'd rather be with a guy who made $30K a year and kept himself out of debt by living modestly than with a guy who made $200K a year but lived like he was making $500K.
My neighbor is the second guy. He has two new sports cars and a new motorcycle, all on credit. He has designer clothes and his fiance' has a 2 carat diamond (but he was like this before he got involved with her). I think it's ended up being a nightmare for him, even though he could never admit it now. A few months back he thought he was going to lose his job, and I seriously thought he was going to harm himself- I think he'd kill himself before selling off his cars and taking a job that didn't make him look important. That's not the kind of thing I'd want to deal with a boyfriend/husband. I'm very anti-debt.
Stability != filthy rich though. It's not materialistic to expect your boyfriend to not be the kind of person who drifts in and out of minimum wage jobs.
I'm told that the big boys keep score in Units(100 million bucks) so a guy who says 'working on my second Unit' is less desireable than a guy who has several units.
A friend married a 4 unit guy and divorced him whan he was a 10 unit guy 4 years later, got a quarter unit settlement- or as she tells it $25,000 a BJ.
Well most guys know that women dig guys with money. Would Donald Trump be f***ing models if he wasn't rich? That question is rhetorical. Now I don't even believe this is wrong, I think it is just nature. But I also think women who are this way (and it is almost all of you) should be honest and admit that they are basically whores, and stop saying bad things about the so-called "actual whores" who are just trying to earn an honest living.
Most women read this and say something like, "Well I'm not the average woman because..blah...blah...not true...blah blah...my boyfriend/lover/husband/masseuse was poor...blah...blah."
If you thought something like this you are very likely the average woman. If you read it and went "Hmmm..." and then you went back to doing physics, then you have a case.
Looks are not to be discounted. I see many girls revert to about a seventh grade emotional level when they see some guy at the club, or some guy from a crappy movie. I think everyone has seen this phenomena, and it seems to have become an alarming trend in women of increasing age.
The attraction category is broken down further in the next section. This is a change from previous versions of the ladder theory that included looks here instead of attraction. I feel this is a more accurate depiction, as evidenced by experiment and peer review.
The last 10% was my effort to give women the benefit of the doubt. A common question men ask of women is "Tell me what you want in a man?", which is like asking how many guys she's slept with, an invitation to be lied to. Because she'll almost invariably answer with some combination of:
sense of humor
intelligence
sensitivity
emotional stability
As far as I can tell this is mostly rubbish. But in an effort to be fair I have included this, since there seem to be a few rare cases of this. Just none that I have ever seen.
Another thing to watch out for is the code words women use. Here is a translation guide for dealing with women.
Says: I want a man who is motivated and has goals.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: I want a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Means: I want a rich man
Says: He's from a really good family.
Means: He's from a really rich family.
Hynal No. 2 wrote:
$150k a year isn't really that much..
The ladies that are looking for men with money want a super nice house, fancy car for her, and NO WORK -- you can't really do that on $150k a year unless maybe you live in Gary, IN..
My dad makes that plus bonus, and my mom doesn't work, drives a BMW, he has a corvette for the weekends, and I have a nice car as well. It depends on how you invest.
you think you have it so nailed down, your generalizations are over the top calling all women whores...in your sad, pathetic life you think the only reason you aren't getting what you want in bed is because you don't have as much moneywell let's flip the coin...instead of calling all women whores let's call all poor guys dumb assesIQ and income are positively correlated, factif someone has made a lot of money they are more likely to be intelligent - as much as intelligence is desirable in a mate - money will signal intelligence and women may prefer men with who are smarterin addition men who have money are more likely to be better travelled, among other things, perhaps this makes them a bit more interesting than the guy in a box on the cornermoney is a sign of many things... not always certainly, but part of women going towards money could be that you are just too stupid to make any money and the women might not be interested for that reasonif you don't sit back and say hmmm, then you are exactly that stupid
Disgruntled Ortho Tech... wrote:
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can you ask your wife to define decent???
Hynal No. 2 wrote:
$150k a year isn't really that much..
The ladies that are looking for men with money want a super nice house, fancy car for her, and NO WORK -- you can't really do that on $150k a year unless maybe you live in Gary, IN..
This is BS. In the US in 2006 the median household income was just over $40,000. Unless you're living in San Fransisco or Manhattan or some other of a handful of super expensive areas in the country, you can do VERY well on $150,000 a year -- nice house, nice cars for both, no work for her, etc.
Yes there are women who will only go after the super wealthy, but if you're a single guy and you can't get some women interested in you with $150,000 a year, then you've got some other issues.
Of course, the best women are those who aren't attracted to tons of money. That way, you make tons of money together and build wealth together and you'll appreciate it more.