TurnHimIn wrote:
Your "coach" should be reprimanded for going any where NEAR that topic with a high school female athlete. Not with a sprinter, a distance runner, or the team waterboy/girl. You should print out a few of these responses and give them to your school's athletic director. Guiding you in a positive manner, suggesting some type of training, core work, recovery work, and healthy nutritional ideas is what your "coach" should be doing for you...not to nag about some misinformed ideas concerning weight. Poor judgement on his part. Maybe he should be given an opportunity to be educated on the subject of inappropriate behavior as it pertains to the coach/high school athlete relationship.. but if I were his supervisor, I would be inclined to fire him on the spot. Good luck with the remainder of your high school career!
Well we don't know the whole story here. Probably the OP could stand to lose 5 pounds, or thinks she could, and has said so to her teammates, and perhaps that opinion has drifted to the coach, and maybe now the coach is just giving moral support. No one's calling her a fattie.
I'm a bit concerned about the ideological cant (what Orwell called 'duckspeak') in the following: 'given an opportunity to educated on the subject of inappropriate behavior as it pertains...'
'Educated'? You mean bullied, browbeated, propagandized? Sent to a re-education camp, perhaps?
'Inappropriate behavior'? A coach's advice about an athlete's physical condition--how could offering this advice be considered inappropriate? Proposing a Brazilian bikini wax in the locker room--now that could be construed as inappropriate behavior. Advice on sport-specific physical training is not.