self esteem police wrote:
I would file this discussion under "don't give a sh*t about what other people think." It's a sports uniform. Women always think they are being viewed as sex object and are the center of attention. Guess what? The world doesn't revolve around you, toots. Us guys have own problems.
Self confidence isn't about "feeling good." Self confidence is knowing that, no matter what happens, you will be able to give your task, no matter what it is, all of your effort. If you're worried that what you're wearing is affecting you, you weren't going to win anyways because your mind is too cluttered with useless crap. NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE PERFECT FOR YOU TO RACE YOUR BEST. What if it rains? What if a coyote comes out of the hills and attacks you on the second water pit? If you're having self doubts because you don't have an extra inch and a half of fabric on your butt, you're beat from the get-go.
If you're running the 10,000, you're only going to be out there (hopefully) for no more than 40 minutes. And guess what...no one watches the 10,000, so you'll be fine if you're worried about guys gawking. No, that's not a knock on women's sports, I'm a guy who ran the 10,000 and am fully aware that everyone's goes and gets a snack or takes a nap during the 25 lapper. When a girl runs, she thinks every pair of eyes in the stadium is looking at her. When a guy runs, he runs.
But that's not too fair of a description. Back when I was in college, there were two types of girls on our team. One group was made up of the dedicated athletes. They would be the ones who did morning runs, long runs on Sundays, watched what they ate, won races, made nationals, and wore bunhuggers without comment. They could've worn pink frilly tutus when they raced because they were confident in their ability and realized that the uniform you wear for 2-40 minutes a week MAKES NO DIFFERENCE on how fast or slow you are. The other group was there for the social aspect. These were the folks who may have been in the top half of their state in high school, but were not winners. They would miss practice, party too much, gain the freshman 15, and usually not make it three consecutive seasons. From day one, they always had problems with the bunhuggers. They always thought the coach was trying to sexualize things even though the coach was female and the uniforms had been the same design for over 20 years.
In college we always wore tight shorts for our men's DMR. These expose a whole lot more of the guy's anatomy than bunhuggers do for girls. Did we care? No, we went out, got the job done, and qualified for nationals.
Again, I'll repeat this for emphasis. It can also be used in other aspects of life: DON'T GIVE A SH*T ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK.