Seek professional help. Not saying that in a mean way, but you need a counselor not a bunch of wankers on a message board.
Seek professional help. Not saying that in a mean way, but you need a counselor not a bunch of wankers on a message board.
would he do this? wrote:
Would J. King troll on here as a 40 plus alcoholic woman in a failing marriage? Would J. King really lower himself to such depths?
Oh there are no depths for Jamin, but this isn't him.
It's just your common or garden incel troll looking for multiple responses being negative toward women.
It's a very common letsrun thing. Slightly different approach than normal though.
trollism wrote:
would he do this? wrote:
Would J. King troll on here as a 40 plus alcoholic woman in a failing marriage? Would J. King really lower himself to such depths?
Oh there are no depths for Jamin, but this isn't him.
It's just your common or garden incel troll looking for multiple responses being negative toward women.
It's a very common letsrun thing. Slightly different approach than normal though.
How dare you accuse me of being a troll!
I'm very real! My alcoholism is unbearably difficult and you call me a troll? Unbelievable!
1/10
If you have two therapists you wouldn’t be asking Letsrun
DarkSpeedWorks loves DarkSpeedWorks wrote:
2/10.
Only because of the amount of detail. Try again later.
Generous
First thing, quit drinking so you can clear your mind to adequately cope with the situation. Don't know if you noticed but alcohol , especially chronically used, impairs your thought processes, even when you're sober. Take a break from it for at least a month, then reassess the situation and deal with it when you are thinking clearly.
Luv2Run wrote:
Seek professional help. Not saying that in a mean way, but you need a counselor not a bunch of wankers on a message board.
I find the advice on this board to be useful.
What are your PBs? What are the girl's times? Is she faster than you?
You have to kick her arse in a race and find a younger man.
Luv2Run wrote:
Seek professional help. Not saying that in a mean way, but you need a counselor not a bunch of wankers on a message board.
We are highly professional here.
40+ woman & recovering addict wrote:
I met my husband in rehab over 10 years ago.
We've been a part of a local running club and both enjoy it thoroughly.
There have been a few races and we usually meet at a bar every Sunday after our group long run.
I've had trouble with this because my AA meeting is after the social at the bar each Sunday.
A few times I've had a few drinks at our social and then claimed I'm sober at AA.
I've gotten quite depressed over this. It's been gnawing at me and I've had to find another therapist. (I already have 2 as it is).
What is putting me over the edge is the fact my husband is now flirting with a younger lady from our running club.
When I confronted him he said it was nothing to worry about.
This has angered me and caused me to drink even more.
What should I do?
My advice - drink heavily.
40+ woman & recovering addict wrote:
Luv2Run wrote:
Seek professional help. Not saying that in a mean way, but you need a counselor not a bunch of wankers on a message board.
I find the advice on this board to be useful.
Okay. You say you are real and this is a real situation.
Not worth ruining your marriage over this? If your husband is a salesman or sales manager, he flirts with female prospects and or female clients while at work way more than he flirts with a female in running club.
A. Is there evidence that your husband has gotten another woman pregnant?
B. Have your friends and or family told you they have seen evidence of your husband cheating on you?
C. Has your husband given you a S.T.D?
D. Does your husband threaten you verbally or brandish weapons in your direction?
E. Does your husband beat you?
F. Does your husband work?
G. Is your husband currently a substance abuser?
If the answer is NO to all seven, do not mention again to him the female runner. Stop drinking, run more and get yourself together.
would he do this? wrote:
F. Does your husband work?
My husband manages a liquor store. I used to be an employee but was let go for stealing 2 bottles of whiskey.
would he do this? wrote:
A. Is there evidence that your husband has gotten another woman pregnant?
His child from a previous relationship has FAS.
You got to get your arms around this. Who has he romped with? Are they married? What kind of stuff do you have on them? Where do they work? Find out who their husbands are, who their employers are, and turn this back on them. Send a clear message that if someone messes with you, they will regret it.
As Donald Trump once said: "The best defense is an offense." You think he'd take this lying down like a patsy?
Forget the flirting for a second. Men who consider themselves good looking will flirt with attractive women. That does not mean a man will leave his woman. Flirting does not mean a man will cheat on his wife. Not a thing to make too much of if everything else is great or good in a marriage. I don't think you two have children together. Do you own real estate together? Even if real estate has been purchased solely in your name or solely in his name, has there been any real estate purchased while married? If no kids and no real estate, if you don't want to be with him anymore, your choice. I had a very expensive Brad Pitt-Angelina Jolie type divorce, went on for years, numerous court hearings. A real War of the Roses type divorce. Very taxing. If he will fight you in divorce court, is the divorce fight worth it? A lot to think about.
40+ woman & recovering addict wrote:
I met my husband in rehab over 10 years ago.
We've been a part of a local running club and both enjoy it thoroughly.
There have been a few races and we usually meet at a bar every Sunday after our group long run.
I've had trouble with this because my AA meeting is after the social at the bar each Sunday.
A few times I've had a few drinks at our social and then claimed I'm sober at AA.
I've gotten quite depressed over this. It's been gnawing at me and I've had to find another therapist. (I already have 2 as it is).
What is putting me over the edge is the fact my husband is now flirting with a younger lady from our running club.
When I confronted him he said it was nothing to worry about.
This has angered me and caused me to drink even more.
What should I do?
Trust him u less he has given you reason not to trust him. Don’t drink. I lost my fiancé to alcoholism just under 2 years ago. Whenever she was stressed it led to alcohol. Alcohol relaxes and calms the nerves. The most important thing u can do is to go to your AA meetings and don’t drink at all
Is your husband an Alpha Chad? If so, you should have never married an Alpha Chad. 😲
Have more whiskey. It will help when you enter the 'whiskey mile' event.
All cheaters should be deserted then they might learn the lesson of who to and not to get friendly with.
100% troll thread designed to trigger the woman haters here.
inb4 DIVORCE HIM AND GET ALL THE MONEY & women are so needy/entitled!
Oh wait, that's already been said...multiple times
Nice try, OP.