Seems troll. Surely anyone who has the last name balzari already knows all about that nickname
Seems troll. Surely anyone who has the last name balzari already knows all about that nickname
She becomes a democratic Senator and is listed as: "Dem. Balls"
I would like to understand what about the word “balz” upsets you.
Could it be that you are over sexualizing the word balls? Not all balls are testicles.
If you have done a good job as a parent, your daughter should feel very comfortable coming to you and telling you the nickname upsets her. If she doesn’t come to you about it, it’s because
a) she doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you…
b) she likes the nickname her friends affectionately gave her.
You’ll figure it out.
high school xc coach wrote:
i think i understand where you're coming from, but you need to get over it. immediately
best way to make it stop is to co-opt the nickname into your household. you call her balls everyday, soon enough she will be letting her friends know that IT IS NOT COOL!
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docLorna wrote:
I would like to understand what about the word “balz” upsets you.
Could it be that you are over sexualizing the word balls? Not all balls are testicles.
If you have done a good job as a parent, your daughter should feel very comfortable coming to you and telling you the nickname upsets her. If she doesn’t come to you about it, it’s because
a) she doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you…
b) she likes the nickname her friends affectionately gave her.
You’ll figure it out.
to summarize
a) you make her uncomfortable
b) she likes balls
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Could be worse
The could be calling her balls sack
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pills for you wrote:
Be happy your last name isn’t Cuntzari
Strong candidate for Post of the Year.
Second the motion! This actually made me LOL for real.
That's nuttin', our daughter is named Annalise, every one, except her parents, refer to her as "Anal". I blame the wife it was her idea.
Wife's idea to name her Annalise, not "Anal" lol.
So long as she doesn't wear the numbers 69 or 00, you're probably OK.
The nickname BallsZ is much better however.
seattle prattle wrote:
She becomes a democratic Senator and is listed as: "Dem. Balls"
good work.
OP, It should inspire your confidence to know when your daughter is with you, you've got "Balls"!
putting my foot down wrote:
Our last name is Balzari. I've just discovered that my daughter is going by a shortened version of her last name as a nickname. Her friends now call her "Balls." I discovered this because a friend of hers saw her from across the street while we were walking home yesterday and to get her attention started shouting "Balls! Hey Balls." I find this to be appalling. She doesn't see what the big deal is and thinks its cute or funny.
What's worse is that my wife knows all about this. When I brought it up to her, she told me that our daughter has been using this nickname for some time now and even has social media accounts with the handle Balls(her soccer number).
Am I right to think I need to put my foot down on this?
You daughter is just communicating to the world that she is easy. When most guys think of her they will associate her to either genitalia or the act. Your wife doesn't understand that.
As long as she is easy, I see nothing wrong with the nickname. If she isn't easy, that's false advertising and is wrong.
With a repressive father, one day that nickname might become "cumdumpster."
Obviously, you’re not a golfer.
Get her to order a T-Bone steak at lunch. People will take notice and she'll get a cool, new nickname.
Yes. It's demeaning to your family's name.
Then again, they are kids.
CKidd wrote:
Get her to order a T-Bone steak at lunch. People will take notice and she'll get a cool, new nickname.
Pretty underrated post.