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married with children
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
I've been watching this thread for a while and have considered replying on several occasions. Been married for 12 years, and we certainly don't have sex often at this point. But I attribute that to having fairly young kids, careers kicking into high gear, and a host of other responsibilities that have come to a head in the past few years. Both of us are pretty exhausted most of the time and would rather just go to sleep. So any "shut off" feels like it's been a two-way road and I hope that it's just another phase.

For those of you who had no cutoff, was there a dry period, especially after kids? How did you come out of it if so?

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