Wow, I've posted here over something like 10 years! Different handles, but I can still pick them out. I hope this thread never dies.
Gents: There's hope. But please please please believe me: It's YOU. You want it? Play by HER rules (you USED to, when you were dating; remember?). It gets easier with practice. Oh, and find an FMO group. Yah. Because Google.
This is the biggest load of BS you could spew. The above poster is completely right: women desire sex with a man when they want his validation. There is no more powerful force for a woman to want to jump a man's bones than validation.
Playing by her rules and supplicating to her and chasing her is the best way to let her know she can have your validation.
No reason to chase validation...no sex.
It's that simple.