I guess I could be an outlier here, but...
Have a PhD, gainfully employed full-time in my field for well respected employer, routinely get bonuses and achieve highest level on performance evaluations.
Make plenty of money, certainly enough to live comfortably and then some.
IQ was tested when I was in elementary school, number not important but suffice to say enough to net me a spot in the gifted program.
Married x 15 years to equally successful spouse.
No drug use or abuse, minimal social alcohol use, but certainly no abuse.
Have tattoos. Also have piercings (nose and industrial).
I guess you're smart enough to realize you are a huge outlier