drunk runner. wrote:
I want the d wrote:
How's the sex life of let's run posters in 2019?
Since I got divorced, it's been fantastic.
That's where I'm headed.
Counseling didn't work; and "finding" religion for my wife meant that I had to believe whatever she did. That's when I realized that all changes had to be on me only. That doesn't work in the long run, so we've opted to divorce.
We both want to change; however, one of has shown a willingness to do so and take steps to do that - while the other has tried to, only to revert back to the same old stuff.
As for the roots of this thread, the post-nuptial shutoff happened around 25 years. Now, there were things she stopped doing at 10 years in...but nothing like a complete shut off.