searcher of answers wrote:
If they almost broke up just because he was away from her too much, I don't think they'll survive this. As you say, it's very sad and you have to feel for his family.
Also to people saying he may be a stand-up guy but he's cheating. I think it's clear that what's he's doing makes it impossible for him to also be a stand-up guy. He has no integrity, therefore there's nothing 'stand-up' about him.
Pretty clear he's more of a sit down kind of guy.