It's not a matter of what you write defending your actions.
You are going to have your side of the story, which isn't going to be 100% correct.
It's a matter of what some people did. It doesn't matter if it was you or not or what your backgrounds are. Or how great servicemen you are. Some individuals on your team acted immature and inappropriately.
The fact you don't understand that and are downplaying it is really sad.
The fact that you think immaturity and inappropriateness in college kids is a crime worthy of the punishment they, both team and coach, received shows you have a stick up your ass.
The fact you are blowing it out of proportion is really sad.