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RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
yes, the man being a mind reader shows a woman how much he cares

Girl Next Door wrote:

I know some people won't like hearing this, but its true: Women don't want to have to tell men what to do to make them happy. They want the men to think of it themselves - that is what shows the woman that the man really cares. Otherwise, every time he does it, in her mind she will think: "He is only doing this because I asked him to."

I know some of you will scream that this is just a stupid game or something, and maybe it is, but that's the way nature set it up. You've got to work hard to create a valuable relationship.

Also, the idea that "shutting-off" is about a woman trying to control a man is wrong. They are shutting off because they are not aroused. For a woman to have sex when she is not aroused can be a degrading experience for some women.

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