I could be any warm body with a "hole" and he would probably be perfectly happy whether it was actually me or not. That's how it felt, anyway
Interesting. I'm sure there is a segment of the male population out there who feels that his spouse could be any walking mammal with a "big wallet" and she would probably be perfectly happy whether she was with him or some other guy who was spending money on her whims constantly, whether together or with her out shopping alone for anything her heart desires.
I have a SIL who is so materialistic, she wanted her hubby to be a commercial pilot (captain), and she doesn't give a S@it if he is gone half of every month or not as long as the wallet is fully all of the month.