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RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
To Girl Next Door,
Your situation is not going to improve unless you decide to improve it. Shutting down on sex is an immature reaction. I would say that if you don't change your tack you two either won't last or you will not have happy lives.
Who cares whose fault it is, him for not complimenting you or treating you well enough; It's still about you deciding whether or not you want to have a GOOD marriage. Hopefully if you change, he will learn from your example.
There is a book that says if you try to make at least one complement a day to your spouse it will change them (and your relationship) for the better. I recommend you give this a go.
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