Richard Perry wrote:
As to the bachelor party scenario....one interesting thing in our marriage is that, on occasion, my wife has gone out with her friends to male strip clubs/parties. This doesn't really bother me since I'm not the type of guy who's all that possessive but once I realized that she always comes home rarin' to go at it hot and heavy on those nights I was almost encouraging her out the door.
I used to make fun of my wife's stupid romance novel habit ... until I clued in to the fact that they always get her in the mood. Now I encourage her to read as many as she likes. :-)