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RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
in reading all of this I just conclude men marry for looks/physical attraction/connection/sex while women marry for security/stability etc. thats why when kids come sex goes out the window--the wife becomes a mother first and foremost--all needs have then been met for her. now these are generalizations yes and some female will prolly post here saying she married for sex
as far as those on the board saying be a man and jump her bones without "asking if its OK" well when you say that you assume an understanding of every sexual dynamic out there...many relationships develop sexually along the lines of the woman taking initiative--the male is flattered by this and it works to the womans advantage. after xx years of marriage where the dynamic worked one way you don't just go and flip it on her. maybe the mistake was in the groudwork, OK.
I also wonder why it is most wives will not engage their husbands eveb tamest sexual fantasies.Not talking about toys, outfits, anal etc. I have tried on occasion to spice things up some which all the mags say to do--not talking kinky stuff, just maybe a little bit of dirty talk like and usu she just says nothing. it doesnt work but if it works for me why is that so bad.
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