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RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
What is this give her flowers, cook, clean and massage her and then maybe she'll let you have sex with her shite.

Be the man and go after what you want.

My gf told me before we got married that I could have it whenever I wanted and she considered it her duty to give it to me, even if at that time she wasn't into it. (BTW, she wasa a virgin when we married.)

Well, she's kept her word; sometimes she's not so interested so it's a quickie for me; other times she is interested and we spend a good time at it. Either way, it brings us closer together because afterwards we always have a nice talk and warm feeling - whereas on nights we don't do it, it's just back to back and sleep and she said she doesn't feel as close.

You are the man and the woman is looking for you to lead her. In other words, she wants you to wear the pants!

Of course, although I know I can ask for it whenever I want it, I do take her feelings into account. She has placed her love and trust in me; I value that and so treat her well.

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