[quote]coming out wrote:
Is he a closeted homo?
My first thought was that he might have something going on the side (not necessarily a homo thing). Haven't read every single post on this thread (although I've been through most of them), but is that a possibility?
This thread sure has legs. It's like a support group for married (and formerly married) guys.[/quote]
I really don't think that's possible - we are together all the time when not at work, but you never know. He once admitted that he was thinking about faking an affair in order to force me to move on, but he couldn't bring himself to hurt me that much. Now he just says that he understands if I leave but he wants me to stay, but he kind of feels we've tried everything and nothing works - so this is how it's going to be for life (hence the tired of my suggestions comments).
Man, I can't believe that all you guys are pretty much agreeing with each other, but I am the only female in this situation. It's worse than I thought :-(