not my usual screen name wrote:
[quote]no names here either wrote:
Married nearly 20 years.
She has gained over 100 pounds since we got married,
It's amazing you can still get your plumbing to work with her.
I made it clear to my wife that she was never going to have to f**k a fat guy, and I'm never going to f**k a fat woman. So much of sex is physical attraction ... there's no way I could do that with a fattie, no matter how much I used to love her. And yes, as important as being fit is to me, if she let herself go like that I would lose all respect for her, and that'd be the end for us.[/quote]
What about when your wife was pregnant? Right after the baby? Were your grossed out?
My husband and I have an excellent sex life, and a part of that is him making me feel beautiful even when I was huge during/after pregnancy. It only took a couple of months for me to get back to normal weight after having a baby, but he always makes me feel attractive, and that is very very important. If he felt differently, then I'm sure our sex life wouldn't be as great as it is.