the long path wrote:
perhaps it is just an idea of the limitations rather than the limitations themselves that is what bothers me.
yeah, i think there is probably something to that.
fwiw, i fully expect to get married at some point in the future. i just get the feeling that eventually we'll grow apart and the inevitable will happen; divorce. of course, divorce shouldn't be looked at as failure, just an agreement that two beings that became one, are now two again.
on a bit of a tangent...it's frustrating that we spend so much tax money on schooling, and yet two of the most important things in our lives, relationships and finances, are not even touched upon, let alone focused on.