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Wondering
RE: Post-nuptial shutoff?
Why was it the worst mistake? Honestly I am an older guy 46 never married and have had many more attractive girlfriends but in the end all of them were irritating. It seems the prettier they were, the more screwed up or difficult they were... WIth my current girlfriend she is so good to me. She is never demanding, gets up at 6 to run with me, and tells me she loves to pamper me. Last nihgt after my run she gave me a shower and then thanked me for letting her pamper me.

I wish she was cuter but maybe if she were cuter she would be more of a pain in the neck. I have come to the conclusion at this point in my life that the really cute or pretty American girls are not interested in my type. It is the same now as it was 20 years ago. So holding out for a hottie is an impossible dream.
I also try to be very good to her and I think she appreciates it more than the "hotties" I have dated. They just expected it. If I just end up with a great femake friend who I can snuggle up with at night for the next 40 years that might be enough.

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