Just asking but wrote:
are you sure it's a woman? See "The Crying Game".
About 20 years ago I was running around Bangkok with a couple of Navy SEALs. We had just finished an exercse with the Thais. Anyway, we were in Pat Pong(?) one night and one of the SEALs starts hitting on this absolutely gorgeous Thai girl. While they're dancing away, our driver comes in and taps me on the shoulder. He says, tell your friend he's dancing with a man. We couldn't believe it, but we decided to let them dance for a while for a laugh. When he got back I told him. He was so pissed he went back to the he-girl and grabbed his crotch. He claims he didn't feel anything but the driver swears it was a guy. Told us he had seen him before. And the he-girl's hands sure did look big.
Moral: You don't know what kind of shit you're gettng into in Thailand.