Primo Numero Uno
It seems like certain people are so focused on accommodating a few individuals that they lose sight that they are ruining the integrity of the sport for almost everyone else.
Maybe people just have to accept that it is not an exact science but we have to do the best we can to be as fair as possible. The other option is to get rid of gender categories altogether and have 1 open category in which women are completely non-competitive. I don't think anyone will be that excited about that option.