How long have you been married for and how have you lasted so long? Is married life really like the show everybody loves raymond or king of queens? After the honeymoon period does the "magic" kinda disappear and instead you're just too people sharing the same space/bills/stuff..etc.? Can you get sex pretty much whenever you want or do you have certain days of the month/year scheduled on a calendar or something or maybe your wife has migraines a lot coincidentally?
Married 10 years.
Trick is growing and changing together. Everyone changes. The person you were 10 years ago isn't the person you are today. But if you can find someone who will grow and change with you, then you're golden.
Get ready to love unconditionally, let things go, compromise, and have the deepest feeling of acceptance and appreciation that you can ever imagine.
If you aren't ready for the first three, then you'll never have the last one,