I very much agree with this. All enertainment that is enjoyed has its critics. Its just natural that people have opinions and want to share them, whether it is a movie, a tv show, a musical performance or a vlog. Its quite frankly absurd to require people to shut off all critical thought and turn into a cult for SJD. When he wants hundred of thousands of fans he also have to accept some hundreds that are critical of what he puts out.
When it comes to the personal stuff I have no idea why he lays it out there. He is the director of the vlogs and could stop filming, or edit out, the numerous times his family (or himself) is put in a bad light. And again, people are really served stuff on a platter to critizise, some vlogs it feels like we are avoiding talking about the elephant in the room, but rather to digging in people mostly stay away. I wish he would stop putting that out there.