I think the military will assist him in developing a solid foundation for work. He is a part of the generation that has become glued to video games. I love the kid very much but the military did me well and helped me find a drive to excel. Besides with his biological this is not about our son deep down this is about a miserable man that does not like to see us comfortable and him not. We have offered on a number of occasions to have our son live with us again and it has been a fight. The military will pay for his college and also provide a good pay check.