Missing the point
It’s the not the same. What you describe is rape. It is a crime. Maybe if this woman had brought a gun to a skateboarding competition, shot her child competitor and the child competitor forgave her we would be talking about the same thing in terms of a child not comprehending the situation.
This ‘child’ who lost is acting like more of an adult in demonstrating graciousness, class and empathy than anyone on this board trying to make an issue out of this.