Im not trying to bad mouth weed but all it does is make me lazy i prefer to drink and party.
In my experience, weed just makes you feel dumb, lazy and sedated. Drinking and partying is fun for a while, but will cause increasing problems the longer you do it. I gave it up in my early 30's. Both probably cause more harm than benefit. But it's your life. Judge for yourself.
Keep this in mind:
Dumb people don't ever learn from their mistakes, and repeat them.
Smart people learn from their own mistakes, and don't repeat them.
Truly wise people learn from the mistakes of others, and don't have to make them in the first place.