Is it weird to be a 24 year old virgin?

Haha no i'm not ugly, and i'm only half gay. I do have a social circle but like i said i was never a partier nor am i a recluse. Honestly its nice to hear that some people are in the same boat.

27 year old female here. I didn't lose my virginity until age 26.

Is it frustrating?

The only thing that is frustrating to me is how picky i am with partners and that i might not find a person who i may end up loving and by extension that means prolonging the time i would be a virgin. In terms of sex alone, i have no problem waiting but the question is would my partner be put off by the fact that i'm not experienced at my age be it 24 or 27

If you get a frisky partner you will have all the experience you really need to be "experienced" pretty quickly.

And that is based on luck lol

The 7aji wrote:

the question is would my partner be put off by the fact that i'm not experienced at my age be it 24 or 27

If I were your partner, I’d be curious about this, and I would expect you to be upfront about it and to be open to my questions. It would not be a deal-breaker, but how you spoke about it might be.

If it’s a dealbreaker, discussion or no, for someone, then that’s probably not a huge loss for you, and worrying about this is not a good reason to go out and date if your heart isn’t in it.

Having said that, a few things in your OP — like the use of the word “disgust” — suggest some unresolved issues. Talking to a therapist, particularly one who focuses on sex, might be your best bet.

Sex is fun, the earlier you get started, the more chances you have. In your teens, you can often find other virgins to have fun with, but by 24, that door has closed.

Disgust was a poor word choice on my part. "Put off" is more of what i meant. I guess i yearn for companionship more than sex. Or like an earlier poster said i could be asexual who knows

Nothing wrong with you. Keep your standards

24yo virgin wrote:

I'm a 24 year old guy and i'm a virgin. I have never dated anyone or kissed anyone. It's not that i've tried and failed at it i have never considering dating and casual sex disgusts me. I've been focused on my studies (just finished my masters) and my running. Any others in the same boat?

Not weird at all. If you're not yet married, then you're making good decisions for a happy and healthy future.

Heavy draw and we are taken wrote:

If you wear a condom, you will not get an std. That's in part what they are for. Saying you're worried about an std while using a condom is the same as saying you're worried about getting her pregnant while using a condom. There is nothing to worry about. For what it's worth I've banged over 150 girls including about 100 escorts or strippers. Never had an std and get checked regularly. I wrap it up and it works.

You're a moron. My son was conceived while I was wearing a condom. What makes you think condoms are 100% effective?

Btw, you having sex multiple times with total strangers is disgusting and you are a broken individual.

You're on this site, so no: not weird at all.

C'mon, guys. It really took until page two for this to be said?

The typical "virgin" is someone who is too nervous, ugly or boring to ever catch the interest of a girl. Never start attributing those qualities to yourself just because you haven't slept with a woman, because it almost guarantees you won't when your time comes.

24yo virgin wrote:

I'm a 24 year old guy and i'm a virgin. I have never dated anyone or kissed anyone. It's not that i've tried and failed at it i have never considering dating and casual sex disgusts me. I've been focused on my studies (just finished my masters) and my running. Any others in the same boat?

I'm 30, and I hear you, man.

Like you, I've never been in any type of relationship. Relationships are just time wasters and drama that neither of us need. I don't have a particularly stressful job or one that requires long hours or a long commute. But at the end of the day, after work, running, chores, and all that, all I want is to just chill out, surf the web, see what's on Netflix, check the news, and so on. I'm tired and want to relax, and dating is the last thing on my mind.

Whenever I have time and energy, I'm doing other things that interest me - motorcycle rides, hang gliding, backpacking, horseback riding, and so on. If the weather is bad, I'll stay indoors and play video games or read something. In any case, dating to me is just like stamp collecting or lawn bowling - I understand why some people may be into it, but it's just not my thing.

Ehhhhh wrote:

The typical "virgin" is someone who is too nervous, ugly or boring to ever catch the interest of a girl. Never start attributing those qualities to yourself just because you haven't slept with a woman, because it almost guarantees you won't when your time comes.

I'm not going to post pics to disprove the ugly part, but as for nervous or boring, I've summitted the four highest peaks in the lower 48 (Whitney, Elbert, Massive, and Harvard) in 3 days, skydived out of a hot air balloon, and flown coast to coast on a Cessna (not nonstop, obviously). There are plenty of other people like me out there.

Getting women is just like watching curling in the Winter Olympics. I have no interest and would rather be doing something else. What is so hard to understand about that?

30yo virgin wrote:

Ehhhhh wrote:

The typical "virgin" is someone who is too nervous, ugly or boring to ever catch the interest of a girl. Never start attributing those qualities to yourself just because you haven't slept with a woman, because it almost guarantees you won't when your time comes.

I'm not going to post pics to disprove the ugly part, but as for nervous or boring, I've summitted the four highest peaks in the lower 48 (Whitney, Elbert, Massive, and Harvard) in 3 days, skydived out of a hot air balloon, and flown coast to coast on a Cessna (not nonstop, obviously). There are plenty of other people like me out there.

Getting women is just like watching curling in the Winter Olympics. I have no interest and would rather be doing something else. What is so hard to understand about that?

Textbook compensating. Cool story though , bro.

Serious question how often r u rubbing one out?

If you have an unhealthy addiction to masturbating then your brain won't be driven and seeking out those real life relationships

So ur the same guy as the OP